General Battuta, I'm a gay male. I have trouble relating to women at all (at least with straight women I share the attraction to men?). Don't mistake my words though — having a lesbian character makes it harder for me to relate, not impossible. So far I'm doing okay with WiH.
As for "scenaristic", sorry, I guess I did some dumb translation from French there (I have English as a third language...). Please understand "scenaristic punches to the gut" as "punches in the gut dealt by a scenario." I've been through
this last year and still have to deal with the aftermath (the wiki doesn't mention that the crisis is still ongoing as of now), so playing a game as the constantly losing side hits rather close to home.