I concur with NGTM-1R, our asshattery is more in response to people being unreasonable. I've yet to encounter a post where someone has been that rude to another member offering to help on a project. Sure, we may say no, but the 'YOU CAN'T HELP US, YOU'D JUST SLOW US DOWN, YOU'RE A NOOB, GTFO MOFO!' response has yet to be rolled (though I am a noob to these forums myself, I haven't read everything that goes on here, so it's possible this happened and I missed it). We've got more class than that.