I have read attempts to reconcile science and God and while i applaud the effort, everything i've read comes from either a scientific point of view, or a religious point of view, and thus has left me more confused. I am as apt to defend science as I am my own faith, depending on which is attacked, and while some will call it wishy washy, or talking out both sides of my mouth, this isn't the case. At the moment of defense, I believe. So when I read these books, I read through skeptical eyes, knowing that I will mentally be defending one or the other. This is why I am seldom seen in these threads. I've gone toe to toe with Kazan, and with Liberator, and no good came from it. This isn't a "why bother", this is a "I'm tired of fighting me afterwards."
Well, even if God does not exist, it doesn't really hurt to have a role-model of a 'Perfect Person' to attempt to live up to. Maybe the secret of 'finding God' is not to look into a book, but to look into ourselves?
The crux of the matter here though is a "perfect person". By looking into ourselves we find OUR definition of that person. Each of us will have a different definition, because much like your beliefs, we all become a mish mash. I do believe that we are the sum of our experiences. I also believe that we are creatures of change by necessity, and yet we resist that change in the name of comfort. It seems to me that because we are constantly experiencing, we are constantly changing. Because of this our beliefs are changing as well. Our vision of a perfect person is changing. As we grow through our experiences, our "vision" of God himself changes. The perfection is forever morphing, slowly, but inevitably. I used to have a good deal of moral gray area, but not so much anymore, things have changed, I've changed, now, it's either right or wrong. Even they are subjective though, and differ from person to person. Mind you these are not facts, but my truths. Which brings us to:
Now the discussion gets interesting. 
I tend to think about this whole "Faith vs Science" thing quite a bit. As a pretty religious person (I try, anyway), reconciling what I believe with what I can directly observe (and with what other highly qualified people can directly observe) is occasionally challenging. As Bobboau pointed out, it doesn't come up that often... most of the time, what science says fits nicely with what I believe. Certainly scientific and rational methodologies make good sense to me as well.
Most importantly, for me, truth is truth is Truth. And Truth is something that is obtained piece by piece. Scientific and rational methods, done right, give us more and more little bits, and correct what's already there. I believe the same thing about religious truth: it comes piece by piece, and builds and expands on previous knowledge and understanding. The main difference is that while scientific truth is gained by observation and experiment, religious truth is gained by revelation. They both come in bits that build on each other and previous bits.
And so, it comes down to this: I see all apparent conflicts as just that, apparent conflicts. I trust that once I have a clear enough understanding of everything, it will all make sense. That understanding may not come in this life: it may be something that I will only have access to after I die.
So here's a summary of how I approach this:
1. It is my privilege and responsibility to pursue as much truth and knowledge as I can. It's important for me to learn and understand as much science as I can. It is also critical for me to pursue as much revealed truth as I can.
2. If I don't need to make a lifestyle/behavior choice, then having incomplete/contradictory information isn't a problem. I proceed with the acquisition of truth and knowledge, and trust that the conflict will eventually be resolved.
3. When there is a conflict and I need to make a choice affecting my behavior, I choose to follow revealed truth (when in doubt, go with what God says).
This is a parting of things for me, and a place where I am comfortable with science and faith (I really hate to use the word religion). I think of a most convenient split when studying either. In science we search for fact, certain facts will have an effect on us. In philosophy of faith, we search for truth, which will have an impact on us. Because my mind tends to wander, (as is evident in my writings), I end up in a place where the two cannot easily coincide. The fact of Science, vs the truth of Faith. Galileo was excommunicated iirc, and if not, I do know that he had serious battles with the church. I forgot where I was going with that (but I have an excuse, last week I put in 63 hours at work, not including the hour travel time in each direction, and this week I am topping off about 74 hours), i'm just really exhausted.
Anyway, the core of things is a battle of oranges vs apples. Using fact to explain truth. It really gets to bug me, especially when I actually do have clarity of thought on something, and wonder why the hell others don't get it. Judaism/Christianity and Islam for example. Similar faiths, but with enough differences to create unto them separate truths. The fact is though, that Abraham was told that both his sons would found great nations. From Isaac sprang Judaism. From Ishmael sprang Islam. Both can trace back to Abraham, so why are we warring with our brithers? Which of us if any is the Prodigal's son? And why the hell are we looking for a political solution to a faith based conflict? Why is there a faith based conflict to begin with? Maybe because of man's inherent fallibility copulating with his vanity to produce a sense of correctness in truth, all the while ignoring the simple fact that we are brothers. Again this is my truth and not to be taken as fact.
There really was a point to this whole mess of nearly incoherent thought. It's a simple point. Man writes the teachings. Man will invariably subject the reader to his opinions, even if unwittingly. In the Greek Lexicon, which is a forerunner to the Holy Bible as we know it, God didn't have gender. But as a product of a male-centric society, we have Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Man giving his opinion in God's text book. There are fundamental truths held within the pages of the Bible. There are also scientific inconsistencies. So if this makes any sense at all, you see my problem with reconcilition of the two. If it makes no sense, then chalk this post up to the ramblings of a man half blind with sleep dep.
