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Offline Luis Dias

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I talk a lot. Most women I know are disgusted by it, by the very thought of it. I have no "peer-review paper" about this, but it seems obvious to me that since the feedback is not female, but male fantasy, even if it tasted really bad it wouldn't matter, they would drink it just the same. And that feeling pervades all the movies out there.

Meaningless. Sampling bias. ****s can taste pretty weird sometimes, that doesn't stop you. If you're hung up on the idea of drinking semen that's pretty weird.

No, I'm not. That's just how the conversation went, mostly because you disagreed.

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This is one of the great myths of our time, but right in your next paragraph you explain the very reason you shouldn't believe it:

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Apart from these basic concepts one can derive pretty easy, and given all the sufficient caveats due to what I mentioned as hard "iterations", I do not trust "evolutionary psychology" papers *at all*, they are mostly trash talk disguised as science. People should be ashamed to publish such amount of nonsense without any kind of empirical back up.

Is it a myth, though? It seems pretty potent as an argument. By all means dissect it and you may ressurect in me the perfect egalitarian I always wanted to be.

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Bull****. This is so blatantly obvious. The fact that women need to protect their sexuality directly stems from the fact that she carries the burden of childbirth and can only give birth to one child for a year, needs extra protection while at it, and needs careful attention and support thereafter.

This is a strong incentive for female promiscuity. There's a mechanism called sperm competition which incentivizes women to mate with multiple partners in rapid succession so they get the best quality offspring. They can also draw in multiple fathers for their children.

Ridiculous. What you would get would be genes of males who would be very good at fertilizing eggs, regardless of the "fitness" of said individuals in their own lives. It seems pretty obvious to me that women do heavy selecting, preying for men that can be competent at providing them with the best support they must have when they do give birth. And it seems obvious to me that men insist on the monogamy of their wifes to assure their offspring is really theirs.

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The fact that females carry the large ova provides the biological incentive for them to be what we so derisively term sluts.

I really don't see how. As fact, it seems to me, rather the opposite, women get to be extremely selective of any sperm that gets inside her.

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The fact that men are "stereotypically" macho men directly stems from the fact that more distributed sperm will increase the chances that his genes get reproduced all around the place.

Folk logic, but unfortunately it doesn't hold up. 'Spreading the seed' is a tactic that can pay off, but it's not the only one. In actuality, fitness (what you call 'the chances that his genes get reproduced all around the place' is as much tied to traits we associate with fey, gay, effeminate men as we do with hairy alphas.

Yes, that also happens. But the alpha males are very successful too, and mythical. Thus the result is you have lots of effeminate males pretending to be alpha males for social recognition, i.e., being "slutty" is good for their reputation.

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Like I've said, if you're going to play in the deep end, you need to learn to swim. And that means learning the science on this topic before you discuss it.

You're making two separate arguments here. One is that porn is boring and mechanical, which I agree with. The other is that acts like anal, facials, gangbangs and so on are inherently degrading things which no women can enjoy. This is a pretty misogynistic argument which stems from a fear of female sexuality.

I never said that. I said there is clearly a bias in these movies. All these activities are "kinky", but they are men fantasies, and they are pervasive, ubiquituous.

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Like I said, once you're in a loving comfortable relationship that allows you to explore these things, you'll learn to shed the fears involved and to treat sex behaviors like flavors of ice cream. It doesn't mean you need to start getting pegged in the ass, but it also means you can stop going into moral panic mode every time you think about a woman enjoying anal.

Really Battuta, grow the **** up before teaching the mass to the priest, mkay?

 

Offline Luis Dias

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You actually are a virgin teen, aren't you? That is rough. We've all been there but I don't think it's the best place to make arguments about sexuality from.

LOL

I'll PM you.

(Oh I seem I can't lol)

I won't be givin you photos. But I am 29, and do have 3 kids.

 

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Um, I wonder if you're having English language difficulties. Statistical arguments and logical arguments are completely different. A statistical argument is based on data gathered empirically. A logical argument is based on derivation from first principles using established rules.

If you believe that, then you are a frequentist. I'm deeply sorry for you.

 

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"frequentist"? What the hell is that supposed to be?

Also, there is no need for triple posting. You can modify your own posts. Learn how to do it.
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It's true that *some* women may feel pleasure at the germane activity of inoculating semen through their oral orifice. It's also true there are women who like anal, who like all the physical abuse men can imagine putting them through.

They are not, by far, the majority of them.

You literally have no idea about this, you just made that up. You have no evidence whatsoever and no grounds to make a statistical claim about majorities and minorities. Anal can be fun and easy and doesn't have to be painful. Swallowing semen isn't any different than licking a ****. It tastes funny, you get used to it.

I talk a lot. Most women I know are disgusted by it, by the very thought of it. I have no "peer-review paper" about this, but it seems obvious to me that since the feedback is not female, but male fantasy, even if it tasted really bad it wouldn't matter, they would drink it just the same. And that feeling pervades all the movies out there.

Ok... let's talk some facts: Taste actually varies greatly depending on what you ate, as anyone who has been in a healthy sexual relationship should know, because your woman will definitely tell you in so many words if you ate the wrong stuff before the act.

I.e. in the most simple terms: lots of red meat = BAD (makes for a good April 1st joke tho); Pineapple Juice = Nature's best invention ever.

My suspicion would be that you were not in an intimate relationship with any of the women that you have your limited "data" from. My next question would be if any of the women you were talking to even had a longterm intimate relationship before in their lives.... and next, if you think they would openly talk to you about intimate sexual details; If a girl answers "ewww" it may matter of fact not have anything to do with the content of the question that was asked, but rather of their perception of whom was asking that question and what relationship they have with that person.
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Offline Luis Dias

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Google is your friend, and I'm sorry, I'll try to be less of a spammer.

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...it may matter of fact not have anything to do with the content of the question that was asked, but rather of their perception of whom was asking that question and what relationship they have with that person.

Nice subtle way of saying that I'm probably a dick.

 

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Is it a myth, though? It seems pretty potent as an argument. By all means dissect it and you may ressurect in me the perfect egalitarian I always wanted to be.

This doesn't have much to do with egalitarianism. The concept we're discussing here is called an ESS, an evolutionary stable strategy. Fortunately, these strategies can be calculated through field observation and used to derive equations. We can model mating behavior with game theory to determine how animals (including humans) will behave sexually.)

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Ridiculous. What you would get would be genes of males who would be very good at fertilizing eggs, regardless of the "fitness" of said individuals in their own lives. It seems pretty obvious to me that women do heavy selecting, preying for men that can be competent at providing them with the best support they must have when they do give birth. And it seems obvious to me that men insist on the monogamy of their wifes to assure their offspring is really theirs.

Okay, let's start with a definition of fitness off Wikipedia because I can't be arsed to dig out my textbooks.

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Fitness (often denoted w in population genetics models) is a central idea in evolutionary theory. It can be defined either with respect to a genotype or to a phenotype. In either case, it describes the ability to both survive and reproduce, and is equal to the average contribution to the gene pool of the next generation that is made by an average individual of the specified genotype or phenotype. If differences between alleles at a given gene affect fitness, then the frequencies of the alleles will change over generations; the alleles with higher fitness become more common. This process is called natural selection.

An individual's fitness is manifested through its phenotype. As phenotype is affected by both genes and environment, the fitnesses of different individuals with the same genotype are not necessarily equal, but depend on the environment in which the individuals live. However, since the fitness of the genotype is an averaged quantity, it will reflect the reproductive outcomes of all individuals with that genotype.

Inclusive fitness differs from individual fitness by including the ability of an allele in one individual to promote the survival and/or reproduction of other individuals that share that allele, in preference to individuals with a different allele. One mechanism of inclusive fitness is kin selection.

Got that? Fitness is a mathematical outcome measure. It doesn't mean you're big and muscular or that you maintain a harem of loving wives. It just measures your ability to pass on your genes, whether through your own children or your siblings'.

So, step one:

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What you would get would be genes of males who would be very good at fertilizing eggs, regardless of the "fitness" of said individuals in their own lives

Exactly! Exactly! This is a key component of fitness. You can be a scrawny weakling with poor eyesight and bad complexion, but if your sperm are kickass, you may come ahead in the fitness race.

And in fact if you examine human sperm this is just what you find. Our sperm are designed to outrace other sperm, even, in some postulated cases, to fight and block them.

For a quick mathematical proof of this you can look at other species, like the ground squirrel. The size of testicles in these species scales with the average number of mates the FEMALES have. This is because the males need a load of sperm to compete. So powerful is this mechanism that in some ground squirrels the testicles physically drag on the earth.

Evolution is an arms race. Females want to mate sleep around. Males generally want to stop them. Thus you find traits such as:

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Sperm competition has led to other adaptations such as larger ejaculates, prolonged copulation, deposition of a copulatory plug to prevent the female re-mating, or the application of pheromones that reduce the female's attractiveness

read more heah

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionary_fitness

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It seems pretty obvious to me that women do heavy selecting, preying for men that can be competent at providing them with the best support they must have when they do give birth.

Female choice is indeed a powerful part of evolution, but it's not solo female choice. Take the case of birds, who are statistically far more loyal to their mates than humans or pretty much any mammal. The female will go for the most evolutionarily fit male it can get. And then, even in this paragon of monogamy, the female will then attempt to sneak out of the nest and mate with other males too - because that strategy results in higher fitness for the female.

The male will, as you said, attempt to control this behavior. This is why men get so controlling about female sexuality, and why we end up with people who think it's somehow a problem for women to enjoy sex.

But there are also documented human societies where the belief arose that every child had more than one father. Each mother would maintain a stable of husband, each of whom would support all the mother's children. These societies have been best documented in the Amazon and may represent a relic of early human social structures.

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The fact that females carry the large ova provides the biological incentive for them to be what we so derisively term sluts.

I really don't see how. As fact, it seems to me, rather the opposite, women get to be extremely selective of any sperm that gets inside her.

Exactly - but the very fact that they can be selective within themselves (and they can) provides the incentive for them to get a lot of sperm inside! The womb demands a buffet so it can select the fittest fertilizer. Thus the biological drive for women to sleep around every bit as much as men.
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Yes, that also happens. But the alpha males are very successful too, and mythical. Thus the result is you have lots of effeminate males pretending to be alpha males for social recognition, i.e., being "slutty" is good for their reputation.

Again you're talking out of folk logic. When you actually do the math you can calculate how well the alpha strategy pays off. And it rapidly tails off when the group becomes cognitively eusocial.

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I never said that. I said there is clearly a bias in these movies. All these activities are "kinky", but they are men fantasies, and they are pervasive, ubiquituous.

Then how do you respond to the women who enjoy porn and to the link I posted arguing that porn can be valuable and beneficial to women?

**** I said myself that most porn is boring, mechanical, and problematic because it's clearly shot from a male gaze, but that doesn't render the acts of group sex, facials or anal somehow inherently wrong, which is the whole point I'm contending here. Are you conceding that or what?

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Like I said, once you're in a loving comfortable relationship that allows you to explore these things, you'll learn to shed the fears involved and to treat sex behaviors like flavors of ice cream. It doesn't mean you need to start getting pegged in the ass, but it also means you can stop going into moral panic mode every time you think about a woman enjoying anal.

Really Battuta, grow the **** up before teaching the mass to the priest, mkay?

Bro I think you're missing a key point here, I'll let you read around until you spot it

Um, I wonder if you're having English language difficulties. Statistical arguments and logical arguments are completely different. A statistical argument is based on data gathered empirically. A logical argument is based on derivation from first principles using established rules.

If you believe that, then you are a frequentist. I'm deeply sorry for you.

Describe to me the empirical utility of an ANOVA test and explain in less than 500 words when it should be used instead of a linear regression model.

The foundation of science, especially social science, is the use of unbiased, unskewed samples to draw conclusions about a population. You can't reject the value of empirical data without rejecting science.
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Nice subtle way of saying that I'm probably a dick.

That is neither what i said nor what i meant.

If what you are asking a women is deemed (by her) to be too intimate for your level of "relationship" then the answer will likely be "ewww" even or rather especially if you are her best "friend".

Even in a relationship it usually takes time for enough trust to develop to openly talk about things that you like and even more trust to talk about things that you would like to try.


Sometimes people may even get married without having developed that kind of trust - which i would say is unfortunate for both of them, but it happens.
Traditional upbringing and last centuries notion that sex is something "dirty" that should not to be talked about certainly is a factor.
 
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Post updated, read it before the next round of a bloo blah bloo

 

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Aaaargh triple post but I forgot I had this on bookmark:

It's not from a peer reviewed source but I can back up the fact that the content here is excellent. Read this for a transparent, easy evolutionary explanation of why women want to bang everything in sight as much as men do (which isn't actually that much for either sex, but a bit).

 

Offline Luis Dias

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Got that? Fitness is a mathematical outcome measure. It doesn't mean you're big and muscular or that you maintain a harem of loving wives. It just measures your ability to pass on your genes, whether through your own children or your siblings'.

Of course I got that.

Also, 2+2 is four.

Got that GB?

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So, step one:

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What you would get would be genes of males who would be very good at fertilizing eggs, regardless of the "fitness" of said individuals in their own lives

Exactly! Exactly! This is a key component of fitness. You can be a scrawny weakling with poor eyesight and bad complexion, but if your sperm are kickass, you may come ahead in the fitness race.

*... all else being equal*, you forgot to add. My point is that such a way of selecting the genes of your offspring (if you are a woman) is very very bad. The fitness of a male also has to quantify for the supportive aspect. If he doesn't support his offspring, they will die more often that the offspring of those who do. His fitness doesn't end in the sexual act. Also pretty damned obvious. And since women don't get much chances to give births, they *do* have to be selective.

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Females want to mate sleep around. Males generally want to stop them

I really don't see how. That's bat**** crazy. Why would women be so reliant on randomness if they can competently choose their mates with the best prospects of being supportive for their offspring? That strategy would only degrade their genes' fitness.

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Female choice is indeed a powerful part of evolution, but it's not solo female choice. Take the case of birds, who are statistically far more loyal to their mates than humans or pretty much any mammal. The female will go for the most evolutionarily fit male it can get. And then, even in this paragon of monogamy, the female will then attempt to sneak out of the nest and mate with other males too - because that strategy results in higher fitness for the female.

... after having "conquered" the best male, who provides safety for the "family", we get her trying to randomize the gene pool a little. It makes perfect sense, and it is not in contradiction to what I said. Until said male is "conquered" in such a "safe" fashion, females would tend to be very defensive.

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The male will, as you said, attempt to control this behavior. This is why men get so controlling about female sexuality, and why we end up with people who think it's somehow a problem for women to enjoy sex.

Yeah, patriarchism and all that ****. Sure.

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But there are also documented human societies where the belief arose that every child had more than one father. Each mother would maintain a stable of husband, each of whom would support all the mother's children. These societies have been best documented in the Amazon and may represent a relic of early human social structures.

The exception make the rule.

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I really don't see how. As fact, it seems to me, rather the opposite, women get to be extremely selective of any sperm that gets inside her.

Exactly - but the very fact that they can be selective within themselves (and they can) provides the incentive for them to get a lot of sperm inside! The womb demands a buffet so it can select the fittest fertilizer. Thus the biological drive for women to sleep around every bit as much as men.

What? You are telling me that a woman can select the sperm that gets inside from multiple men to fertilize her? Now you are jumping the shark!! roflmao!! And I'm the one being fed with definitions ahahah!


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Then how do you respond to the women who enjoy porn and to the link I posted arguing that porn can be valuable and beneficial to women?

...that I didn't argue from absolutes? And that there is quite a variety of bull**** studies everywhere that claim that X and Y and Zed is "beneficial" to A, B and C, with some p values deriven from the most astonishingly bad sources ever?

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Describe to me the empirical utility of an ANOVA test and explain in less than 500 words when it should be used instead of a linear regression model.

The foundation of science, especially social science, is the use of unbiased, unskewed samples to draw conclusions about a population. You can't reject the value of empirical data without rejecting science.

ROFLMAO. You missed it entirely. Look, if I am making the case that porn is heavily biased towards men's fantasies and that it is mostly more degrading to women than to men (my original comment look it up), then it makes absolutely no sense to state that I'm "generalizing" that porn is "degrading to women" with an implied "always". This is logic at work. It's also a statistically very simple bayesian argument.

And I'll pass your attempt at submitting myself for your amusement as if I'm some student of yours. You're the one claiming that vaginas choose speficic sperm to enter their eggs, not me, ahahah!

 

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From Battutas link:

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lanation -- and it turns out women do have an evolutionary incentive to screw around. The light began to dawn during studies of chimpanzee populations. Female chimps who spurn low-status bachelor males from their own band are much more willing to have sex with low-status bachelor males from other bands.

That actually explains certain holiday experiences in other countries (LOL).

 

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When you actually do the math you can calculate how well the alpha strategy pays off. And it rapidly tails off when the group becomes cognitively eusocial.

The myth stays, and that's my point. There are natural reasons for the cockyness of alpha males. You don't need to *be* an alpha male, you just need to have the *mythos* of it. Most women like it, even. And then they try to *tame* them. Exactly how it is expected to be.

 

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When you actually do the math you can calculate how well the alpha strategy pays off. And it rapidly tails off when the group becomes cognitively eusocial.

The myth stays, and that's my point. There are natural reasons for the cockyness of alpha males. You don't need to *be* an alpha male, you just need to have the *mythos* of it. Most women like it, even. And then they try to *tame* them. Exactly how it is expected to be.


And I'll pass your attempt at submitting myself for your amusement as if I'm some student of yours. You're the one claiming that vaginas choose speficic sperm to enter their eggs, not me, ahahah!

Selection based on fitness in harsh environments. The Vagina is actually a very hostile environment to sperm... only a very small percentage ever makes it past the cervix. - That's why ya need millions of them and why a decreased sperm count or decreased sperm mobility may effectively mean an inability to father children. (Or at least it may mean a huge amount of tries is required for eventual success.)

May the fittest sperm win the race...     that's how natural selection works, ya know?
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Mikes, he was saying that vaginas "selected" specific sperm from specific providers.

He may well not meant it. In fact I don't believe he meant it. But he did say it.

The fact that there is a sperm race is ridiculously out of the point, irrelevant and basic.

So stop the condescending act.

 

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Mikes, he was saying that vaginas "selected" specific sperm from specific providers.

Hardly in the way you think he meant it. Conception does usually not immidiately happen during/right after intercourse. Selection of the best sperm from multiple partners is therefore entirely possible.

Before we start arguing about who meant what however, I'll leave it up to Battuta to put it right though.
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*... all else being equal*, you forgot to add. My point is that such a way of selecting the genes of your offspring (if you are a woman) is very very bad. The fitness of a male also has to quantify for the supportive aspect. If he doesn't support his offspring, they will die more often that the offspring of those who do. His fitness doesn't end in the sexual act. Also pretty damned obvious. And since women don't get much chances to give births, they *do* have to be selective.

It's not bad, not at all. The link I posted above addresses it in general terms. You'll need a grounding in EGT math to work out the exact payoffs.

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I really don't see how. That's bat**** crazy. Why would women be so reliant on randomness if they can competently choose their mates with the best prospects of being supportive for their offspring? That strategy would only degrade their genes' fitness.

Because mathematically the payoff for securing a mate and sleeping around is higher than securing a mate and remaining loyal.

Think of the gangbang. The woman not only gets sperm from all those men but also forces each of them to contribute to rearing her children on the off chance that it's his child.

You can try to reason with this but it's pointless. You need to engage with the data gathered in the field, and that data points to the fact that this strategy works. It's the ESS for females across thousands of species.

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The exception make the rule.

You have no idea if this was the exception or the rule in early human societies. You can't tell. Memetic evolution kicked in and everything went sideways. Information about early societies is no longer trivially retrievable, which is the big problem with evopsych.

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What? You are telling me that a woman can select the sperm that gets inside from multiple men to fertilize her? Now you are jumping the shark!! roflmao!! And I'm the one being fed with definitions ahahah!

I guess you just had your mind blown. If you like I'll put you in touch with the University of Chicago biologists who taught me all about this.

Women can do this because the sperm can do this. They want sperm from multiple males inside them because the sperm of the most fit male will win. But there is also some (unresolved, still unclear) evidence that the female can select among the sperm herself - though this is not firmly established. In many species this is so dramatic that if a female mates with a pair of males on the same day, the child she eventually gives birth to will almost always be the child of the higher-ranking male. And it's not clear whether this can be attributed to the sperm of the higher-ranking male being somehow superior.

Females have a startling amount of control over their reproductive anatomy. Human women, for instance, can almost certainly selectively miscarry male babies if they're starved for resources, because male babies are more resource-hungry. This is evident in deer and seems to be present in human populations too if you like at the gender ratio of births in low-income households.

Women can sense the environment they're in and control their own reproductive anatomy.

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ROFLMAO. You missed it entirely. Look, if I am making the case that porn is heavily biased towards men's fantasies and that it is mostly more degrading to women than to men (my original comment look it up), then it makes absolutely no sense to state that I'm "generalizing" that porn is "degrading to women" with an implied "always". This is logic at work. It's also a statistically very simple bayesian argument.

You're trying to change the point to avoid conceding. Do you or do you not believe that facials, anal, and group sex are inherently degrading to women, separate from the obvious problems of male gaze in porn?

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And I'll pass your attempt at submitting myself for your amusement as if I'm some student of yours. You're the one claiming that vaginas choose speficic sperm to enter their eggs, not me, ahahah!

Not so much this as that vaginas want multiple sperm lines inside them so that the best sperm can win out.

But also that, in some species. Here, read all about it

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_sperm_storage

The entire process of internal selection within the female is called cryptic female choice and is one of the hot topics in evolutionary biology right now.

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The myth stays, and that's my point. There are natural reasons for the cockyness of alpha males. You don't need to *be* an alpha male, you just need to have the *mythos* of it. Most women like it, even. And then they try to *tame* them. Exactly how it is expected to be.

You're arguing folk logic in the face of quantitative science. The things you're saying aren't even connected to EGT any more.

In fact your primary source for this debate seems to be modern dating advice.

Mikes, he was saying that vaginas "selected" specific sperm from specific providers.

Hardly in the way you think he meant it. Conception does not necessarily immidiately happen during/right after intercourse.

Before we start arguing about who meant what however, I'll leave it up to Battuta to put it right though.

Mikes is correct. Cryptic female choice - the selection between sperm, and of sperm by the female - occurs in the interval between intercourse and fertilization. It is so important to mating strategies that many species go so far as to physically block the vagina with a copulatory plug to try to stop the female from using cryptic choice.

So we've established part of your wariness of porn has to do with your issues with female sexuality. Let me ask a focusing question to keep you on track. Do you believe that it is possible for a healthy, intelligent, sexual woman to enjoy group sex, anal, or a facial in the context of a healthy relationship or relationships?

 

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Luis Dias, as a good primer on the question of whether human females can select sperm themselves, I suggest pages 20 and 21 of "Sperm Competition in Humans: Classic and Contemporary Readings", by Todd Kennedy Shackelford and Nicholas Pound.
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**** yeah, more triple post

The phenomenon blowing your mind (of vaginas selecting sperm) is part of a class of behaviors called postcopulatory choice. Broadly speaking, and I quote

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At least twenty-one possible mechanisms have been described, including, for example, binding some but not other types of sperm with molecules in the zona pellucida of mammalian eggs, discarding the sperm of some males during or immediately after copulation


blah so on

To read about it I suggest the following bibliography drawn from a nice review on JSTOR:

# Cordero, C., and W. G. Eberhard. “Sexual Conflict and Female Choice.” Evolution. Theoretical and empirical treatments of possible male–female conflict need reexamination because of flawed calculations of costs to females.
# Darlington, M. B., D. W. Tallamy, and B. E. Powell. “Copulatory Courtship Signals Male Genetic Quality in Cucumber Beetles.” More energetic copulatory courtship in a beetle induces the female to relax the walls of her reproductive tract and allow the male to deposit a spermatophore; male offspring of especially stimulating males are better stimulators.
# Eberhard, W. G. Sexual Selection and Animal Genitalia. Cambridge, Mass., 1985. Proposes that male genitalia evolve rapidly and divergently due to sexual selection by cryptic female choice and critically evaluates this and other hypotheses.
# Eberhard, W. G. “Evidence for Widespread Courtship during Copulation in 131 Species of Insects and Spiders, and Implications for Cryptic Female Choice.” Evolution 48 (1994): 711–733. Apparent male courtship behavior occurred during copulation in 81 percent of 131 species of insects and spiders, suggesting that cryptic female choice is common.
# Eberhard, W. G. Female Control: Sexual Selection by Cryptic Female Choice. Princeton, 1996. A summary of arguments and data indicating that cryptic female choice may be a major evolutionary phenomenon.
# Eberhard, W. G. “Female Roles in Sperm Competition.” In Sperm Competition and Sexual Selection, edited by T. Birkhead and A. P. Moller, pp. 91–116. New York, 1998. Summarizes arguments regarding cryptic female choice and discusses its possible relationships with male–female conflict.
# Edvardsson, M., and G. Arnqvist. “Copulatory Courtship and Cryptic Female Choice in Red Flour Beetles Tribolium castaneum.” Proceedings of the Royal Society of London B 267 (2000): 559–563. Experimental manipulations showed that female perception of the rate of male copulatory courtship behavior in a beetle affected the male's fertilization success when the female mated with two different males.
# Otronen, M., and M. Siva-Jothy. “The Effect of Postcopulatory Male Behaviour on Ejaculate Distribution within the Female Sperm Storage Organs of the Fly Dryomyza anilis (Diptera: Dryomyzidae).” Behavioral Ecological Sociobiology 29 (1991): 33–37. More postcopulatory genitalic tapping by the male increases the likelihood that his sperm will be used to fertilize the eggs that the female is about to lay.
# Thornhill, R. “Cryptic Female Choice and Its Implications in the Scorpionfly Harpobittacus nigriceps.” 122 (1983): 765–788. Females laid more eggs immediately following copulations with larger males; also coined the term cryptic female choice.
# Ward, P. “Cryptic Female Choice in the Yellow Dung Fly.” Evolution 54 (2000): 1680–1686. Gives reasons for supposing that cryptic female choice occurs in this species when females shuffle sperm among their multiple storage organs and thus bias male chances of fertilization, a possibility that has been hotly debated.


Incidentally this maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay be why the mysterious female orgasm has persisted, though **** knows why it'd be so if it's basically impossible to achieve in standard penetrative sex for most women.

 

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Yeah, Battuta, I knew you didn't mean what I was thinking you meant. Of course that if only one sperm can enter the egg, there will be selection inside the vagina for the fastest spermatozoid. For a minute there I thought you meant that the woman could *choose* consciously from which partner she would have her baby from.

Mind also that spermatozoid "fitness" is almost entirely separable from actual sperm provider's fitness, which was the whole point being discussed.

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It's not bad, not at all. The link I posted above addresses it in general terms. You'll need a grounding in EGT math to work out the exact payoffs.

As I said, *after* you got the safe conditions first. You and me agree on that point, but you deliberately choosed to continue the fight regardless.

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You're trying to change the point to avoid conceding. Do you or do you not believe that facials, anal, and group sex are inherently degrading to women,

There is nothing "inherently degrading". I'm not even an objectivist. All requires context.

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The entire process of internal selection within the female is called cryptic female choice and is one of the hot topics in evolutionary biology right now.

And now was the part where you should have caveated that homo sapiens do no such thing.

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In fact your primary source for this debate seems to be modern dating advice.

Ah ah, no. It's out of thin air, I admit. But I have little *more* respect for computer projections than I have to the air I talk to.

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Let me ask a focusing question to keep you on track. Do you believe that it is possible for a healthy, intelligent, sexual woman to enjoy group sex, anal, or a facial in the context of a healthy relationship or relationships?

I believe it happens quite often, sure. Your polarization of the debate is quite silly, frankly. Nothing new, of course. I see it all the time.