To me, since you were a part of that society, and that society consisted of, in your own words, people that behaved monstrously towards each other, I challenge you to question how you acted towards others, as one of those people within that group?
Are you familiar with the Robber's Cave Experiment? The Stanford prison study? The Milgram paradigm?
I'm familiar with the Stanford study, and the Robber's Cave Experiment sounds familiar.
Good. Now you're starting to see why things like this happen: it's the natural way of things with humans. The reason our system is so miraculous is because it lets us transcend that.
I disagree on both accounts. I believe it's the system that perpetuates it; I had a discussion with someone that was about 40 years old, had a pretty good thing going, and told him about some of the ideas I had. His response was one I heard a lot of times - he flat out said that there was nothing in it he saw for himself or his family, and thus he didn't want to do it. It was extremely short term thinking.
Now, there are some things I like about our system - the US Constitution is one of the best examples of good law ever written. Not so much the stuff about the government, but the Amendments to it as a whole are pretty awesome. If I were to start again, I would start from there, and only add if it was really justified.
There's even an argument for spontaneous governance, now that I'm on the subject. The idea is that in the absence of governance, humans will immediately try to craft or experiment with the best form of governance they can think of. For instance, if I walked into a meeting between a bunch of anarchists, punched one and stole his wallet, the other people in the area would spontaneously form a "government" - one of their most likely actions would be to first say "Hey, you can't do that!", take steps to make me stop doing it, remove me from the area (one of our greatest achievements being that, historically, they would kill me on the spot), and then attempt to make sure the person is ok (there may have been a time when they would have simply tried to take advantage of the person's weaker state).
Basically, once you stop making assumptions about people, then people stop making assumptions about you - and it's assumptions that create systemic problems, IMO.
My first impulse would be to say that it was because you had the skills and you didn't teach them when you had the chance.
Oh, not at all - I was successful in no small part because I helped everyone with everything academically. Did my best to keep everyone thriving.
Try again. You're thinking too small. What are the reasons, in general, that determine whether American youth make it to college?
The adults in their lives.
Exactly!
My dad was the first person in his family to go to college, and he succeeded. I was the child of a successful political scientist in a town of impoverished marijuana farmers and deer hunters. I had a systemic advantage. The other kids were trapped in a cycle of poverty - not only did they not have the means to get to college, they didn't know they needed college, because their parents didn't value it. The teachers did what they could, but it wasn't enough.
I wish to hell I could've done something for those people; many of them were my friends. Some of them got damn close - one of my closest friends, who I'll call Al, was the child of carpenters, but his parents sent him to my house every day they could so that he'd be with me and hopefully pick up some of my family's values. He was a good kid until he hit high school, then drugs got him. Last I knew he'd disappeared after his dad kicked him out of the house.
That cycle has to be broken to save these people. And to break the cycle requires economic intervention, which means we need to understand why this town is so impoverished, and what can be done to repair it.
You may be right that it will take economic intervention, but our government is great at throwing lots of money at problems and not having anything actually get done. This leads me to believe that there's a societal function that must be repaired.
One of those things is this reliance on "getting into college" as the sum total of a "good childhood" these days. Not that extreme, but college is not the end-all-be-all of a kid's early life. That is something that needs to be fixed, IMO.