Regardless, we are talking about airstrikes here. The US airstrike policy in Afghanistan has for the longest of times favored saving the lives over US soldiers over saving the lives of civilians or civilian property. If civilians died, they are considered "Acceptable casualties". Strangely enough, somehow the people who signed up for a lethal job are not considered acceptable casualties
.
I think this needs a little bit more attention. Current US policy considers that the life of a United States soldier is more important than the life of a civilian in theater. While that looks good for the soldier
in theory, it also has the rather questionable side-effect of ensuring that soldiers are necessary to remain in theater, because said theater remains dangerous.
When the United States government finally bites the bullet and realizes that a soldier's life in theater is not inherently more precious than the civilian's that live there,
and takes action in a direction to show that, there may just be some progress to be made. Do note, that while this is a personal opinion on a proper course of action, it's also my opinion as a soldier in the United States Army.
As an example, while rules of engagement vary based on location slightly, training in dealing with civilians that get too close is fairly standard. In basic, again in advanced training, and
again before deploying, we're endlessly drilled in the "Five Ss". In order:
Shout
Show
Shove
Shoot (to warn)
Shoot (to wound/kill)
Shout is fairly self-explanatory. Show is the act of brandishing your weapon to indicate that you both have one, and are willing to use it. Shove is to physically remove the civilian from your area (making sure to keep weapon away from grabbing range). In large part, the second step is skippable if there's little time, and it's taught that way. As such, normal training for the first three steps consists of yelling at anyone who gets to close, and then shoving them out of the way.
The final two steps are frequently taught as one step. While technically a soldier is not (in general) supposed to discharge his of her weapon without a display of intent to harm from the civilian, the criteria for "intent to harm" is ill-defined, and deliberately so. If a civilian postures in an aggressive manner while
any sort of weapon is present, ready and raised or not, it qualifies. If a civilian repeatedly attempts to close, even without a weapon it can be considered intent. There are a number of other criteria for what constitutes intent (also obviously including firing, or brandishing a readied weapon, of physically assaulting another soldier). Shooting to warn is generally ignored in favor of shooting to wound/kill if intent is demonstrated, both because it tends to invite return fire even if the situation is still able to be defused, and because the prospective combatant doesn't
get a chance to shoot back if they're already dead.
It's much the same deal with vehicles at checkpoints, minus the middle step (shove). If a vehicle does not follow instructions completely, first shout (usually with loudspeaker, and at a fair distance. We were taught 300 meters), brandish your weapon, shoot to warn/wound/kill. Generally shooting to warn is ignored again. When trying to disable a vehicle, we are specifically taught to aim for the driver, because it is the easiest part of the vehicle to disable.
That's the
universal teaching standard for deployment. It's aggressive, does very little to defuse actual belligerence before the point of violence, and incites belligerence amongst otherwise peaceful groups that happen to simply get to close or make a soldier nervous.
That method of thinking that a soldier's life comes before any other factor in the field contributes significantly to the wartime culture of shoot-first, identify-later that directly leads to so many civilian deaths. It's actually bad enough that my MOS, Civil Affairs, spends a depressing amount of its pre-deployment readiness training learning how to deal with wrongful death compensation and relations repair. It's a
problem.