Declaring Gamers are dead was a clear, and stupid, move on attempting to change the definition of Gamer: i.e. a person who plays games. I bet you most of those Editors and Journalists have never dipped into linguistic theory or studied concepts of meaning from a philosophical standpoint. As a half-asian, I find it amusing that gamer supposedly means white person. Well, guess I'm only 50% there. And while I have some sympathies towards GG, I'm no friend to it.
I'm perfectly happy to refer to myself as a gamer to anyone who asks, and I enthusiastically supported an article containing the quote "'Gamers' are dead". If you really want a "civil discussion", stop assuming I'm a moronic ideologue, and think about how I am reconciling those two statements and why.
So I take it that you have no interest in listening to me then? Just be honest so I'm not wasting my time.
No, because the problem is you're demanding GamerGate listen to you. And the first step to building a better relationship is listening. That's something they'd be hard pressed to accept as well.
The greatest thing I was told by women was needing to listen more. And I think that is solid Feminine advice the Anti-GG side could do with.
You won't fix the problem by demanding the other side to change, that change has to be an internal force, external forces usually beget fear, angers, and mistrust. Continuing to demand that each side change rather than changing itself is a problem. I think GamerGate would implode if people on the Anti-GG side pulled their heads out of the sand, stopped accusing gamers of being worse than ISIS, and agree to open a dialogue with them instead of trying to destroy them. Anti-GG, trying to be reasonable like you claim gamers and GG are not.
And the problem is lack of internal self-introspection within each faction. Go ahead, accuse me of being an Idealogue, but it's this lack of self-criticism about both sides that has me worried.
Both are fixated on being right, and therein lies the problem. Game devs and game journalists cannot exist without gamers who pay for games, but neither can gamers without their games and media circles. The reason I vehemently attack the "Gamers are Dead" stance is because the relationship between the gamers and journalists essentially collapsed, with devs stuck in the middle. The Journalists failed to connect with their audience, so the cracks turned into a rift.