As I said, I'm glad to here both Scotty and Kara acknowledge this, although it bothers me that they're the first pro-choicers I've met to say anything to this effect. Most of the ones who even brought the matter up followed the same logic as the "How I lost all faith in the pro-life movement" article that went viral:
In the five years since that day in October, I have rethought many things. I no longer believe that abortion is murder because I no longer hold that a zygote, embryo, or fetus is a “person.” I also came to realize that the focus on personhood ignores the fact that a zygote, embryo, or fetus is growing inside of another person’s body. For a variety of reasons, I see birth as the key dividing line.
As I said, it's entirely possible that I've simply run into too many people you would probably consider "extremists" or as Scotty put it, "Misanthropes". Demographically, HLP is a lot more centrist than, well, the world in general.
The problem I have with this logic is that, pain issue aside, a human being is still getting killed. A late-term unborn baby is a former early-term one; any way you slice it, that person's getting killed. Not to mention, the solution to this "violation of a woman's bodily integrity" involves making an even bigger violation of the baby's bodily integrity. The mother might have to carry her baby for nine months, but the baby's body is completely destroyed.
EDIT Kinda Ninja'd by Jr2's point. The "violation of the mother's bodily integrity" ends in less than a year. Trying to end it early leaves one member of the pair dead.