Celestia was discussed a while ago
here, (at least, that's when I found it) and continues to be a very impressive program. I urge everyone to at least try it out

Altair's a regular star, that just happens to have a fast rotation period. The closest neutron star is on the order of 200 light years away, with the rather elegant name of RX J185635-3754. Though this might have changed recently and would need further searching, and as neutron stars go, it spins rather slowly and doesn't emit enormous amounts of radio waves.
IIRC, Polaris is the closest known cephied variable, sitting over 600 ly away. Last I checked, it was still too far away to judge its distance accurately by means of parallax, so they used the timing of its periods.