Libby - just for reference
There are six stages of moral thinking broken into these three categories (listed simplist->most complex - learned in that order, but many adults never achieve Post-C stage due to their dogma and petulance)
Pre-Conventional : Children Think with way
Conventional: People like you think this way - 'black and white'
Post-Conventional: Abstract morality that requires a sharp mind to understand.
Conventional and Post-Conventinal clash very often - because Conventionalists cannot think abstractly, think everything is black and white
that's what the abortion debate comes down to - you think everything is black and white and cannot see the complexities of the situation and refuse to acknolwege that there are severe health risks related to pregnancy (and CLINICAL abortions have almost zero risks)
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Fundamentalism practices misogyny, wheter you PERSONALLY go that far is debatable. However indoctrination of gender roles has been universally condemend and shown to be psychologically damaging to BOTH sexes
Originally posted by Liberator
You'll notice that the moral decay of this country
Which only exists in your mind - you're really refering to the decay of "Black and White" thinking because society is maturing past the 'Conventional' stage to the 'Post-Conventional' stage
Thank you for being a glaring example of someone using slanting language stemming from ignorance and lack of understanding of complex issues
became noticable only when the threat of pregnancy was taken away as a cogent risk of promiscuity.
You act as if sex is something evil - it is not. There are TWO species on this planet that have sex for pleasure - Humans and Dolphins. (It's a social behavior in bonobos.. not a 'enjoyment').
Acting like 'sex is is evil', which is what you're doing right now, is highly immature and rests on irrationallity NOT on real knowledge. Sexual relations are the extension of a healthly interpersonal romatic relationship. Acting as if they're something 'evil' outside the definition of your religion's marriage is irrational, immature and PSYCHOLOGICALLY DAMAGING. The studies sit there and glare at you with universal support of the scientific community and you ignore them.
However - having sex TOO readily is just as dangerous as acting as it's evil. Sex is something that should be reserved to certain people, but not forbidden and treated as if it was evil.
Fruthermore - "Threat morality" is PRE-CONVENTIONAL, it's what CHILDREN use
When people were able to stop analyzing their potential partners as potential lifemates and instead thought of them as a quick lay, the relationship that is required for lifelong commitment is damaged.
That is debateable at best: however, no matter what, increased sexual freedom isn't the root cause of problems with relationships
The real problem with relationships is mostly due to parenting. Most of the parenting you advocate has glaringly negative effects - most importantly people don't develop proper interpersonal skills. I highly suggest you actually READ about this subject in a MODERN PSYCHOLOGY book, but I guess learning real knowledge is against your religion by all evidence of the activity of your religions members, and the outright hostility for learning that your religions leaders indoctrinate into you.
Why is the divorce rate so high? People are too busy having sex to talk about their problems.
Wrong, because people are not learning proper interpersonal skills due to poor parenting and being indoctrinated into 'black and white' thinking.
The divorce rate is LOWEST among atheists and HIGHEST amoung fundamentalist catholics.