Opinion on the matter at hand: It was 50 years ago. Get the hell over it. EVERYONE. Just make the damn apology or (alternately) shut up about getting one.
I'll let it go when every attempt to gain reparations stops being shot down by Japanese courts. I mean, sure, we admit indirectly that we kidnapped all the "comfort girls" and repeatedly raped them, but we refuse reparations because it was soooo long ago! Well they're still here to sue you, dip****s, and nobody made any trials over that subject.
Even an attempt by POWs to gain reparations for their work for Japan (which cost many lives and was under conditions to make one puke) on the grounds they hadn't been paid for it failed.
They're just assholes. They deserve to be treated like assholes.