i perfectly agree guys,
you are working for free at this project and nobody has a magic wand to make the modifications required, even the impossible ones, in a couple days.
Probably we (modders) have a misperception of what your (coders) work is, btw i think you will never be able to fully stop being overwhelmed by requests and by people who pretend we to make their favorite requests immediatly(me too:p), and this because there will also be far more modders than coders.
So your only suggestion is:
take a note of all the requests giving priority to what can be done, is necessary/important, is easy and fast to do, is cool, and we like more,
just ignore precedence claims, bumps, repetitions, that we will continue anyway to do, just in case we forgot em (virtual shields for caps!! virtual shields for caps!!!)

:)
draw a line and when someone surpass that line, well say: " stop it"
Different point is your help request, we are are right we must get more involved than we are, helping we in any way possible, giving instead of only pretending.
Probably it may be good if we open a sticky thread(s) with things that people without coding knowledge can do if want to help anyway the scp proj
btw splitting this board in two(or more) forums, one for requests, one for development, etc etc may be a good idea