You're right Stryke, though I'm going to have to bite my fingers after that last comment there... Think I'll just leave Liberator to find out the hard way, since he seems to think that saying 'Do what you feel makes you complete, and don't do it if you don't want to' is more a matter of 'Force' that 'You can't do that because I'm sexually insecure and because I have a screwed idea that Morals are equivalent to getting my own way because I am perfect and live a perfect life and am so incredibly close to a deity that I have the right to judge absolutely everyone else on the planet.'.
If you want to choose to live the life you lead, then good luck to you and I wish you happiness, but don't tell anyone else how to live their life, or who to love, because, quite frankly, it's absolutely none of your busniess.
Anyway, sorry Kaz, I'm getting angry again.