I agree with the Tito example, I'll give you that much. Just my luck, I'm born just as the golden era is winding down and the **** starts hitting the fan.
But it is *because* of Tito's style of rule that you saw the wars of Yugoslav succesion in the 90s. See, his idea was unity at any cost. The fact that the Serbs didn't get along with the Croats, the Croats didn't get along with the Bosnians and the Bosnians didn't get along with the Serbs, that didn't concern him much. There was lots of bad blood between the Serbs and the Croats, because the Croats had beem Nazi colaboraters, while the Serbs had fought in the resistance, the largest group being the Communists who eventually took power after the war.
Its the same story in Africa, in India/Pakistan and many other places. Groups who have certain quarells are forced to live with each other for the sake of unity. And when the force that is holding them together against their will is gone, well then they have to work their **** out. In Africa, this mostly happened after de-colonization, and in Yugoslavia it happened with the death of Tito (though there was stability for abour 10 moer years after his death).
Tyranny may work, but its only achieving something not worth the cost.
See, if I have to pay 5,000 dollars for a chocolate bar, screw it, I don't want te chocolate bar. ANd if people have to pay for order with their freedom, than they would rather have freedom any day.
edit: My English teacher must be spining in her...chair. I R A Terible spellar.