Hmmm... This is a toughie....
It's a bit of both in my opinion. Playing with, or against friends is what multiplayer is about, I'll agree to that, but the whole idea of the SCP is to pull the Freespace 2 engine into a more modern environment, ships and all.
If this is cutting people out of the loop then yes, I fully agree something needs to be done, and it seems a lot of coders do too, but there will be compatibility issues, since I don't doubt a lot of new multiplayer experiences will contain mods. I suppose you can avoid that by only using games that are unmodded, but I think people would be missing out on a large percentage of the SCP if they did so.
Still, if it's a question of compatability in older graphics cards, my own opinon is that it 'might' be a good idea to be looking at a newer card, but it's easier to say than pay
I
can see the need, but the ideals of the SCP is for pushing forward and expanding the capabilities of Freespace.