[Drew]

just walk up to her and ask her. girls are just as desperate to be asked as you are to ask them.


i had to swich schools mid year, into a small private school. **** prom.  would you belive it, its at someone house. out in the boonies.

[Corsair]

Make a big treasure hunt/riddle... like the Da Vinci Code!

[comic]

I always find a good way to break the ice is run up screaming like a mad man....

Then carmly just ask her out in a sensible and not ermmmm...ummm kind of way.  the screamming is to make you feel less worried about the asking and be more worried about the bunch of teachers about to kick your butt!

[vyper]

If adwight knows girl fairly well >> start conversation about prom >> tell her you would like the two of you to go together| If girl says yes then say you're very happy she said yes and something else nice | If girls says no >> accept the answer camly and say you understand, and don't want it to affect the friendship.

Pow.

[adwight]

Well here's the idea I've come up with.  I'd have my 5 year old brother (cute little kid) dress up in a little tux suit that he has and hold a rose with a note tied to it asking her if she wants to go(because they always respond in some elaborate way).  He goes up to her door, rings it, asks if she is there, kneels down on one knee, gives her the note, then goes outside to where my car is and drives away.  Does that sound good?

[vyper]

Phear the drama.

[Knight Templar]

Originally posted by adwight
Well here's the idea I've come up with.  I'd have my 5 year old brother (cute little kid) dress up in a little tux suit that he has and hold a rose with a note tied to it asking her if she wants to go(because they always respond in some elaborate way).  He goes up to her door, rings it, asks if she is there, kneels down on one knee, gives her the note, then goes outside to where my car is and drives away.  Does that sound good?

Yeah, until your would-be-date turns you down. Then you'll feel really foolish, and your brother will be pissed off dressing up for nothing.

[JR2000Z]

Originally posted by ShadowWolf_IH
if you know her parents well, you should probably ask for thier blessing first.

Dude! That's a great idea. Tell her "Your mom asked me to tell you that you should go to the prom with me."

It should work with proposals also.

[icespeed]

that's very romantic... but i agree with KT, you'd feel losered if she turned you down.

why do you have to specially ask her to the prom? why not just ask her out? if she agrees to go with you then she'll go with you to the prom. in fact, why do you have to have a date, do you actually like her? in which case you should just ask her out anyway.

um, yeah.

[Grug]

Plenty of Good girl advice found here see.
Even some from actual girls! =O

I was going to say something about dressing a life sized doll up etc, but looks like you've got all the advice you need.
Just take a good sense of humour with you and you'll be fine.

[Knight Templar]

Also, make sure that you don't actually care about the outcome of you asking her to go. I mean, make her think you care so that she'll want to go with you, but don't get all depressed just because whoever you have your sights set on doesn't want to dance with you. Your average high school girl can be really stupid in this sort of matter and come up with something you never even thought of as an excuse of why she wants to be as far away from you as possible.

[adwight]

Originally posted by Knight Templar
Also, make sure that you don't actually care about the outcome of you asking her to go. I mean, make her think you care so that she'll want to go with you, but don't get all depressed just because whoever you have your sights set on doesn't want to dance with you. Your average high school girl can be really stupid in this sort of matter and come up with something you never even thought of as an excuse of why she wants to be as far away from you as possible.

I know she'd say yes if I asked, but the hard part is getting up the nerve to ask.  You all know that's the hardest part.

[Liberator]

which is something I've failed at my entire life...

of course I never really hung out around girls and they certainly took pains to avoid me.

In a spread chart of how the people in my HS class related to each other socially, there would be the usual groupings but way off in right field there would be a small unassuming dot that represented me.  I didn't drink and was fairly straight laced and my father was(is) like a old time fire & brimstone preacher that everyone liked but no one ever hung out with, which rubbed off on me...

It's not that I'm not a nice guy or am annoying somehow, people just don't hang out with me, which kinda makes it hard to have close friends and potential mates.

I'll shut up now...

[Knight Templar]

Originally posted by adwight


I know she'd say yes if I asked, but the hard part is getting up the nerve to ask.  You all know that's the hardest part.

Actually, it's not. I mean, it seems like it is, but my personal advice from experience is to do something, and actually do it. Yes or no, once you open that door, it's nothing afterward.

[vyper]

The hardest part is knowing what to say after she says yes

[Tiara]

Originally posted by vyper
The hardest part is knowing what to say after she says yes

Ehm...

"I'll see you then." *big smile*

Just don't give her the weird-type smile...

Like these;





Or you could make an "AARRR!" sound and go like this;


(DON'T FORGET THE PIRATE HAT!!!)

[aldo_14]

Are you seriously suggesting you can go wrong with wearing a pirate hat?

[Sapphire]

 

[Stealth]

Originally posted by Tiara
Yeah, just ask.

ow, and not like this;

"Ehm... Will... eh... you go... Erm... with me... Prom? You know?"

that would probably work though, she'd probably feel sorry for you and be like "ummm OK"

[KappaWing]

Originally posted by Liberator
which is something I've failed at my entire life...

of course I never really hung out around girls and they certainly took pains to avoid me.

In a spread chart of how the people in my HS class related to each other socially, there would be the usual groupings but way off in right field there would be a small unassuming dot that represented me.  I didn't drink and was fairly straight laced and my father was(is) like a old time fire & brimstone preacher that everyone liked but no one ever hung out with, which rubbed off on me...

It's not that I'm not a nice guy or am annoying somehow, people just don't hang out with me, which kinda makes it hard to have close friends and potential mates.

I'll shut up now...

Same here, man.

Not that you should take my advice, but I'd hire a taxidermist to make a replica of several stuffed Vasudan headz. Sneak into her house and hide the headz under her bed. Send her a note telling her to look under her bed. She will scream and shout and whatnot which would be your cue to jump in the room. Dive under her bed, grab all the Headz and throw them out the window! At which point your potential date will say "Oh thank you for saving my bedroom from Headz from Vasuda Prime! You're so dreamy!" At which point you will say "Arrrr! All in a day's work my dear (her name). Then dash out the window and beat the crap out of the fake headz.

The next day, ask her to the prom!
She can't refuse someone who saved her from stuffed headz!