I don't actually have anything mixed. If you read my message again, you'll see that what I wrote was exactly the same thing you wrote in your last message, but in a slightly altered form.
If skinny kid and sumo wrestler are standing on a floor of a rocket that yelds standard power to give itself standard acceleration, the force exerted to sumo wrestler by the floor (and through the legs up to head, all the way becoming smaller as the amount of supported mass reduces) is bigger than the force exerted to skinny boy. That's really basic physics and I know that very well...

So, in this scenario (and basically every else, too) there actually is a difference between how great an acceleration these people can take before collapsing to ground because their legs no more can transfer the induced supporting force to body and upwards. The skinny boy supposedly will be able to stand longer, as his bones, joints and muscles will have a fraction of strain that the sumo wrestlers bones, joints and muscles must withstand if the acceleration is the same.
Unfortunately, as long as the acceleration is the same and both can support their weight, still both of them will faint in this scenario, before their "structural integrity" collapses (aka legs no longer can support the great powers working on them). This is because the blood packs to their lower body, and this happens quite equally with both the skinny kid and sumo wrestler. There are some individual differences between people, but generally the blood packs to legs if they're standing upright in great accelerating movement, like on this example. Thus, both people faint and collapse to floor at ~4-5 g's, I'd wager. They might be able to support their weight even in greater acceleration, but it becamos impossible when they are no longer able to control themselves when their brains black out of loss of oxygen.
However, generally it can be said that the smaller the mass, the greater is the acceleration needed to inflict damage, because if the acceleration is the constant and the force needed to inflict damage (for example, break a bone) is constant (it probably is, if the skinny boy and sumo wrestler are both healthy people, their bones will be approximately of same strength), then when the Sumo wrestlers ankle bones start crakcing and being crushed, the skinny boys ankles are just fine, because of lesser force is applied to them.
Thus, lighter person can withstand greater acceleration than a heavier person, because of that difference in forces in effect if the acceleration is constant. So, actually there is no difference between our opinions, I just wanted to make clear that I don't have this thing mixed up at all, even if my last message might have been a bit ambiguous.
Of the force field moving the ship as a whole... I don't think it's even possible. Except that with space time manipulation there is no longer any need to accelerate, actually. Just make clear that there is nothing between A and B, then create a shorter path between those two, take a short ride at nice and pleasant acceleration, and after a few minutes, you're in B, after seemingly passing thousands of light years.
That is, if such space time manipulation ever will be possible...
