Well, if you wait 15 seconds and it still doesn't connect, you're allowed to quit, right? I've forwarded the ports (7808 and 7117, right?), I've placed the multiplayer configs, changed to read
fs2netd.game-warden.com, and still nothing! Interestingly, before, I connected fine, rejoiced, and quit to do a print job. But now, it doesn't even give me a failed message!