Dammit! My Yellow Van just exploded!
Seriously though, it\s not a question of being angry or being selfish or being a 'bastard', it's simply a case of being yourself, and being comfortable with the fact. I'd hardly class myself as a 'ladies man', I look like the lovechild of House MD and Mr Homm. I have a short temper and am the laziest person I know, and yet I can't really say I've had an bad relationship history. I think the thing is, for me at least, if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, girls can smell, for want of a better word, 'desperation', a mile away, and it is an anti-attractor.