I'm not actually interested in drinking. What I want is
(1) Meet people interested in the EDM community, and
(2) Go to events once every week or so where EDM is played and I can dance, preferably with women and in a sexualized manner.
GenericHLPer2247501: So basically FlamingMamba just wants to go to parties.
Well, yes and no. At practically every party I've ever been to, they only play rap music (99% of which I hate), some hip hop (most of which I don't like, unless it's the Beastie Boys), and a few rock songs which I invariably won't like (usually something like Nickelback or Theory of a Dead Man). I've never had a good time at any of those parties.
It's got to have the right atmosphere, but most of all, it's got to be electronic dance music. Trance, house, electro house

, techno, dubstep, drum & bass, whatever! I like it all.
I've done some internet searches and asked around and have concluded that there are either no such parties on campus, or if there are, they are not publicized. So I figure my best bet is to hit up some nightclubs that have EDM and 18+ nights.