[Janos]

She knows, but she wants to wait, which is why we're just meandering along very happily.

please.

is she asian? i would definetly believe it if she was

what's your problem

[Dilmah G]

lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break

i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian

[McCall]

Now this is interesting!

What kind of asian? Oriental or subcontinental?

[Dilmah G]

Now this is interesting!

What kind of asian? Oriental or subcontinental?

Oriental, like the type that wore short skirts
Got good grades etc

Let me tell you

THE WAIT WAS WORTH IT!

[Androgeos Exeunt]

To be honest, I'd be even less inclined to believe it if she had.

Well, believe it. She did tell me, and at the moment, we're very contented with being friends.

Besides, the time we spend as friends is a good time to test if we can really get in a relationship. For now, the outlook is poor.

is she asian? i would definetly believe it if she was

We're citizens of the same country.

Such incomprehensible creatures, women.

*grabs beer*

Grab a stone and watch it weather too...this'll take a while.

lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break

i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian

Keep in mind the cultural differences between the East and the West. You would do well to note that Asians are quite conservative unless if it concerns moneymaking.

[Janos]

lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break

i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian

sounds like a solid case for generalizations there dude

rock solid

[karajorma]

To be honest, I'd be even less inclined to believe it if she had.

Well, believe it. She did tell me, and at the moment, we're very contented with being friends.

Besides, the time we spend as friends is a good time to test if we can really get in a relationship. For now, the outlook is poor.

I didn't say I found it hard to believe she would tell you. I said I'd find it hard to believe she'd tell you she wanted to wait before dating you and actually mean it.

[Dilmah G]

lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break

i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian

sounds like a solid case for generalizations there dude

rock solid

Yeah, I'm a narrow minded SOB

I think it'll do me better to refrain from putting forward my own personal experience in layman's terms, and rather just sit on the sidelines.
Yeah I also agree about the difference in terms with those issues between east and west, hell, I'm Asian by definition (Sri Lankan.... if you didn't already guess that by looking at my username) living in Aus. But people who grow up in a different environment at home and a dramatically different scene socially seem to rebel against one or the other, so I've grown up with a kind of distaste to the conservativeness and integrity of relationships my parents always talk about. It grows especially worse when your home life is pretty much like living in another country (...take a guess?), where anything related to Christianity, the West, the military etc can be met with a wall of criticism by the two domineering members of the family.

Anyway, is she hawwwt?

[Androgeos Exeunt]

No.

[Dilmah G]

No.

Well as long as she has some kind of 3 dimensional personality with some intellect it doesnt 'really' matter. It's better than talking to a bimbo who hasn't heard of Iraq before and believes President Bush is some kind of exotic plant from Mexico.

[McCall]

lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break

i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian

sounds like a solid case for generalizations there dude

rock solid

Yeah, I'm a narrow minded SOB

I think it'll do me better to refrain from putting forward my own personal experience in layman's terms, and rather just sit on the sidelines.
Yeah I also agree about the difference in terms with those issues between east and west, hell, I'm Asian by definition (Sri Lankan.... if you didn't already guess that by looking at my username) living in Aus. But people who grow up in a different environment at home and a dramatically different scene socially seem to rebel against one or the other, so I've grown up with a kind of distaste to the conservativeness and integrity of relationships my parents always talk about. It grows especially worse when your home life is pretty much like living in another country (...take a guess?), where anything related to Christianity, the West, the military etc can be met with a wall of criticism by the two domineering members of the family.

Anyway, is she hawwwt?

 

Dilmah... you are so deep!

Seriously though, it is nice to hear from folks who aren't as utterly shallow as I was in my dating days.   

[Dilmah G]

Hahaha

Well basically now I subconsciously do things that rebel against the social values my parents taught me (mostly my Mother, Jesus, her teenage years were more sheltered than a bloody dog's kennel, meaning she basically understands none of what I talk about). Now I'm the token Christian of our household because 'it made more sense than a bloody wheel' (apologies for any Buddhists here, I was 11 when I said that to my parents, I have a slightly more respectful attitude towards the religion now),  I'm now the family's resident gangster (referring to clothing style only, my parents drug education seems to have penetrated my parental shields), and Military Cadet. Pretty much a summary of everything my Mother doesn't understand in the Western World. Hell, when I told her the guys in Easy Company in Band of Brothers were the kind of people I respected she didn't talk to me for about a week. But my Father's brother (my uncle) served in the sl army for quite a while before becoming a geo, so my dad has more of an insight into what I meant by that, as well as the fact he led pretty much the total opposite of my mother's adolescence, and knows what I mean when I say "I NEED these baggy jeans to LIVE! I dont' wanna get beat up on the way to the video store!" whereas my mother would rather tell me to 'listen to some real music' and 'get better grades', the latter of which she really pushes me to do, so I have respect for her for that. But otherwise she's basically a fish out of water when it comes to my social life.   

[General Battuta]

You'll probably get over the military stuff as you age. It's worthy of respect, but it's also an ugly business.

[Dilmah G]

You'll probably get over the military stuff as you age. It's worthy of respect, but it's also an ugly business.

Yeah, my Uncle (ret. Captain I think) told me some pretty grisly stuff about the civil war in sl
I don't think I'll ever be able to use my mate's body covered in loose leaves as cover... or tell my section that we'd have to leave the 2IC behind because his wounds were slowing the whole section down.

[S-99]

I'm single because quite frankly everywhere i go, all the women are in relationships. And it pisses me the **** off!!! Not only that the women i do like and ask out turn me down. **** YOU BIATCHES!!! At least i don't get told the "i want to wait". Even though that may be a good response, it'd send me up the wall. I'd much rather not hear about a prospect that may or may not happen. To me, that responses garners in a cheesey ****ing answer that the girl could come up with to give me false hope because she didn't want to hurt me.

I'd rather be hurt than misled. I like yes's or no's the best. I have much more respect for a woman who'll tell me no than some bull**** answer. And i don't get hurt in hearing a no, i feel great comfort in getting a sure response. Regardless of whether or not i'll be pissed off temporarily. In which case prospects for women in fairbanks isn't really that great at all. I'm a nice guy with a good sense of humor and high self esteem and is intelligent (this is great because i'm not bland, i don't hate myself, and so on). Women get along great with me all the time. I'm raelly blunt with the things i say, but that's just me. I make sure that doesn't get in the way of things. At times it can. I have many woman friends, but this pisses me off. No female is romantically interested in me? WTF!!!

So i'm looking elsewhere. I did gain yellow fever recently, but whatever. I still have hope for the area i'm living right now.

Time for some beer at the bar a block away now. Of which to stay away from the hot chicks with kids, which just makes me think "OH NOW YOU WANT SOMEBODY WHO'S COOL HEADED AND STABLE?"

[Mobius]

S-99, I hope you don't believe them. There are many women who claim to be in a relationship while the truth is different.

And even women engaged with someone else might spend a night(or an afternoon) with you.

[Dilmah G]

Well I'll tell you what a 'player' once said to me, and it's helped a lot

You say you have a lot of Chick Friends, that's your problem right there, if you buy her a drink, pay her compliments, act as her f*cking doormat, she's going to treat you like a girlfriend, that's right, girlfriend, she's going to talk with you for hours about all kinds of 'chick issues', that's not getting you anywhere is it? I'm not saying you shouldn't buy a woman a drink, rather you she should probably be your gf before you start doing so.

If you do buy her the drink at the bar kinda thing, you're just like every other guy whose come, tried, and failed, and is now at the bottom of her fonebook. Point I'm making is, you have to be DIFFERENT, by this I don't mean you dress like I do/as if you're my age (I'm assuming you're dramatically older than me, like most other people here), I mean you have to come off as confident, funny, smart, cool... in other words, not her F*CKING DOORMAT!

Now you do that, by acting different, you have your own style now, from this day onwards, you shall never buy women drinks, women buy YOU drinks. That means you act confident, hell, slightly arrogant (not in general, just to women, to show you're funny, have good self esteem), now don't take that the wrong way and walk up to the local bimbo and throw her drink in her face and tell her to buy another one. That's called being an asshole. You have to come off decent, but not 'too nice', it's okay to act like you normally would and actually buy her drink once in a while, but seriously, EVERYONE does that, it is OLD, if you see another guy doing it and failing, learn a lesson from it, and don't do it.

Don't think Im saying every chick out there is a ***** either, there are nice chicks, but you need to give them a reason to like you, is your hair good? do you work out? do you make money (if your looking at a goldigger, still helps sometimes though), are you UNIQUE? are you NOT a carbon copy of every white male out there

[Androgeos Exeunt]

At the moment, I'm feeling juuuuuuust fine being single. It makes the world a lot easier to handle for now.

[WeatherOp]

You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. 

[Mobius]

You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. 

Until you're single again.