If there _was_ one all-encompassing guide for that, it would be considered the Bible, the Holy Grail, and the bee's knees, all in one by FS community modelers. Unfortunately, I think the only way to get all that information is to scrounge around on the forums and the wiki, and ask questions about individual subjects when you get confused. There _is_ Freespacefaq.com, but its turreting tutorial is based on Truespace 3.2 and ModelView, both of which are obsolete apps now. There's a lot of good general info there, though. Might be a decent place to start.