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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
He uses the word intrinsic in that sentence.  Definition of intrinsic (courtesy Diciontary.com): 1) Belonging to or lying within a given part or 2) Belonging to a thing by its very nature.  Since both of those would apply to General Battuta's point that they have no intrinsic value beyond that assigned by evolution (they have intrinsic value not exceeding that assigned by evolution), I think that his statement has more merit that you are wont to admit.

  

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While I wish not for this to be evolutionism vs. creationism, how much evidence is there for the soul or any of that stuff?
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I won't get into it since it is off topic

Typically when one starts a post like this, they DON'T start talking about it.

I miss what the picture has to do with anything being funny.  Could someone please explain it?

 

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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
That's a contradiction. People do not jump off a bridge 'of their own free will.' There is no free will. There are no decisions without causes. People jump off bridges because they are depressed. And that depression is an ailment as powerful and real as something like Ebola. It must be addressed and treated in order to prevent the death of the patient.

That said, I agree that suicide has a devastating effect on those close to the victim. But I imagine this is part of what motivates suicide victims. The act is, in no small part, a plea for help - 'Why didn't you pay attention to me? Why didn't you listen?'

That's also a contradiction. If you posit the nonexistence of a choice in this case, then it's not preventable. They're going to do it and it's too late. This disease with "symptoms equals 100% fatality rate" analogy is not only demonstrably wrong but would be patent craziness to compare to any physiological disease since They Do Not Work That Way.

The characterization of the act as a plea for help also demonstrates the problem with the argument you're making. Something in that logic process has clearly gone terribly wrong since the plea is being made in the form of an act which renders it unanswerable. That argument might hold water in a more survivable mode of suicide then jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge, of course, but a clear intent to commit suicide renders the whole logic chain behind it clearly broken. Instead of a plea for help, a sane mind would see it has rather more similarity with "I'll show you all!"; if it is, in fact, seen as a plea for help by the person commiting suicide this is simply yet further evidence of mental and emotional failure.

Yes, failure. Suicide is, to use an engineering term, a failure mode of the human pysche. (Others include various forms of insanity, assuming you do not wish to class the suicider as insane themselves, which is where you seem to want to lead this argument but, honestly, seems disingenious.) It is the failure of normal coping mechanisms to sustain the mind. They were not able to handle the strain. So yes, ultimately, it must be ajudged a sign of their weakness, their inability to adapt to or cope with what they were exposed to. This does not render these mechanisms unformidable, but they were clearly unequal to the task at hand. Meanwhile, as the existence of, say, a homeless population in every major American city demonstrates, others were able to withstand much more.
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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
NGTM-1R, it looks like a couple basic points in my argument weren't presented well.

Suicide is the end-state of a disease (depression) that is clearly treatable. The symptoms of depression aren't a 100% fatality rate. Suicide is just the mechanism of mortality.

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If you posit the nonexistence of a choice in this case, then it's not preventable.

Choices are the products of tangled heuristic pathways, overlapping conditions, environmental influences, and stochastic processes. They are not the result of an abstract will pointing to an outcome without external influence. This is the misperception I wanted to clear up.

The succeeding elements of your argument suggest you're essentially agreeing with me, and that I just didn't present things well:

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The characterization of the act as a plea for help also demonstrates the problem with the argument you're making. Something in that logic process has clearly gone terribly wrong since the plea is being made in the form of an act which renders it unanswerable.

If your argument is that something is terribly wrong in the cognition of the individual choosing to commit suicide, I certainly wouldn't disagree. It makes no more sense than an immune cell attacking friendly tissues. Yet both cases do occur.

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Yes, failure. Suicide is, to use an engineering term, a failure mode of the human pysche.

Absolutely in agreement with that.

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It is the failure of normal coping mechanisms to sustain the mind.

Totally correct. But you must remember that many of those coping mechanisms are external, not under the control of the individual, or both.

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They were not able to handle the strain.

Sure. But this seems to be leading to an argument that they 'just should've toughed it out', which ignores the fact that the stresses which drove the victim to suicide could have been altered by intervention. As, I think you'll agree, would happen in 100% of cases in an ideal world.

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So yes, ultimately, it must be ajudged a sign of their weakness, their inability to adapt to or cope with what they were exposed to.

I believe you take an interest in militaria. It is often said in military circles that 'no one can resist interrogation'. The degree to which one resists, however, varies considerably, to the point where some perform heroically under interrogation and are commended for it. Nonetheless, the military is careful to train its soldiers not to be ashamed of breaking under interrogation.

All human minds will collapse under sufficient strain, just as - in your metaphor - all engineered structures will.

Your argument is that some minds are more prone to collapse than others due to internal, structural factors. These are the 'weak'. They are separated from the 'strong' by their inability to adapt to or cope with stimuli they are exposed to.

I am in agreement with the supposition that some individuals are predisposed to react to life stress factors more heavily than others. This is an undeniable scientific fact. It is known to be moderated by genetics.

My argument is that the number of factors affecting depression and the decision to suicide are epiphenomenal, networked, stochastic, and highly sensitive. Individual cases of suicide, therefore, cannot and should not be attributed to 'weakness' in the individuals alone. It should instead be attributed to the failure of the individual and the individual's social context. Depression and suicide occur in a social context and must be treated that way.

Furthermore, while I try to avoid dispositional inferences in arguments, I must admit to some degree of anger with you, NGTM-1R, and Mefustae for using the loaded term 'weak' to refer to suicide victims. It is well known that many depressives do not step forward for treatment because of the popular perception that depression is 'not a real disease' and that it should simply be toughed out.

It seems to me that your decision to make dispositional inferences about depressives and suicides, by labeling them 'weak' - a term that carries honor-laden connotations of cowardice and failure - you contribute to that existing and prevalent social problem.

I feel that this choice of words, while it may describe a valid phenomenon (the individual variance in reactivity to stress) is both socially irresponsible and inflammatory. Depression is a mental illness characterized by loneliness, negativity bias, and learned helplessness. Describing depressives as dispositionally weak and unable to handle the strain placed on them, whereas others are 'strong' enough to become homeless, is, I feel, a moral transgression, akin to smoking around an asthmatic.

By no means, however, do I mean to suggest that you intended to attack depressives or suicides in your posts.

 

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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
Nine out of ten psychologist/engineers agree, this will be a pretty good external coping mechanism:

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2008/10/11/BASH13F0MH.DTL

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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
I hate to get in the way out people kicking vulnerable populations down without any facts to back it up, but methinks this thread is in serious need of some psychological facts.  I see a lot of opinion and ****-all to back it up.  Plus, I was apparently summoned on the previous page without my knowledge - you guys forgot to say my name three times :P

Useful fact about suicide and depression:  Depressed people do not commit suicide.  People who are RECOVERING from depression commit suicide.

People who have clinical depression lack the ability to motivate themselves to perform the act of suicide - they cease to function.  As they recover from depression, their ability to motivate themselves into action increases and they carry out any plans they have formulated while in the depressed state.

It's the sad irony of depression:  People take their own lives just as they're finally getting better.

Also, depression is a biological condition and has very little to do with things like willpower and internal strength.  It's a disease of neurotransmitters, and to characterize people who attempt or successfully commit suicide of being "weak" is an extremely misinformed/ignorant stance.  And yeah, like most true mental illness, it has a strong genetic component.

There are two types of suicidal people:
1.  People who have a detailed plan.
2.  People who don't.

Category 1 is high risk and usually do NOT exhibit outward signs that they are preparing to take their own life to anyone without training in psychology/counselling.  Category 2 is low risk and often make pleas for help either through discussing it and asking people, or through poorly-executed attempts.

One caveat:  not all suicides are the result of depression; just the vast majority.

Oh, and another thing:  installing suicide-prevention systems on things like bridges and overpasses have an interesting effect.  They not only decrease the number of attempts (which includes successful attempts) at the site where it is installed - they also decrease suicide rates in the entire geographic region permanently.  Edmonton installed a couple of these systems and the suicide rate went down not just in that area but all over the entire city, and stayed at the new level.  Deterring the act once makes people re-think their position and often seek help as a result.  One of those interesting little tidbits I picked up in Abnormal Psychology.
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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
I don't see why people who commit suicide always think that a bridge is the easiest place - walking in front of a truck or crashing your car is just as easy - I have often thought about how easy it would be for someone waiting to cross the road to just walk out into the traffic.

Also, I don't think that you can call a person's brain "weak" or "strong". They are different. Natural variation allows certain people to be good at some things, others good at other things. Gain an insight into a person with depression and you might find (or not) a lot of things you couldn't cope with. A lot of people just don't "see" just what is happening. It is this isolation and feeling of solitude in a mechanical world full of "biological clones" that makes some people feel depressed. To channel this feeling into something like visual art or music makes for interesting reactions when it comes to other people. And I don't mean emo-screamos where sometimes they aren't really depressed.
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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
It's a combination of factors, High Max. Genetics included.

 

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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
Effort != Improvement.  If I try with all my being to make the sun explode, all effort I may funnel into that particular venture is for absolutely naught.  That, however, is not to say that nothing will ever come of said effort or experiences in many cases.  Something more than effort is required is required for self-improvement.  Off the top of my head, the ability to learn from mistakes and experiences would be one such thing.

EDIT:  Grrr.  Battuta beat me too it.

 

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Effort and gaining tolerance and knowledge through experiences is what makes someone better at things or stronger or more intelligent. It isn't just a genetic predetermination and we are just mindless automatons. It is what you try to accomplish too and trying to better yourself. You can become good at things you never were good at before by trying, in most cases. People can to a certain extent control how they feel and invent their own motivations to continue living, like I have done. To always blame an illness and say they couldn't control themselves is to make an excuse to not hold someone responsible for their actions. Kind of like people going around saying a killer is not responsible because of insanity. We all have a choice in most cases and one choice is just for us not to think about certain pain or get our mind on something else or take a nap. Eating healthier can also help relieve depression to a certain extent. I don't believe in anti-depressants. They often times don't work and I feel they are a gimmick for a company just to make money off of the person suffering. They often hide natural cures and remedies so they can get you to keep buying medication to make money off of the person, it seems.

Yet that's just what happens...so someone could fake insanity and then go and murder someone...

When ever there is a desperate need for something, or a need in general, there will be someTHING waiting to charge insanely high prices and make a fortune...
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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
See, the thing that distinguishes anti-depressants from a lot of depression treatments is that they can work whether or not you believe in them.

Now, granted, believing in them helps a lot...but still, they do have some staying power of their own.

 
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And not all anti-depressants work very well... I know, I've been there  :ick:  :(
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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
I don't like taking antidepressants because I distinguish depression-due-to-brain-suckage from depression-due-to-life-suckage. My psychiatrist, on the other hand, seems convinced that pills will somehow cause my life to be less suck.

But they do work. Even if you have a legit reason to be unhappy.
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Re: Suicidal people seem to have a sense of humor.
To always blame an illness and say they couldn't control themselves is to make an excuse to not hold someone responsible for their actions. Kind of like people going around saying a killer is not responsible because of insanity.

Which does happen quite legitimately.  It'll be a sad day for justice when untreated paranoid schizophrenics are held criminally liable for crimes they commit while in that state.  Illnesses DO compromise people's ability to think logically, rationally, and know the consequences of their actions, and it is uncontrollable.  It is not possible for a schizophrenic with auditory hallucinations to make the voices go away without treatment.  They can try to ignore them, but that becomes less and less effective over time.  The same is true of depression.  Once in that biological state, you can't MAKE yourself just snap out of it.  Spontaneous remission rates for mental illness are not very high, so generally some form of treatment (be it therapy or medication) is required.

Eating healthier can also help relieve depression to a certain extent. I don't believe in anti-depressants. They often times don't work and I feel they are a gimmick for a company just to make money off of the person suffering. They often hide natural cures and remedies so they can get you to keep buying medication to make money off of the person, it seems.

Stop listening to that quack Tom Cruise.  Eating healthier does nothing for actual clinical depression (though it is good for your health overall).  Modern anti-depressants are very, very good.  Overused, absolutely - there are many people who are not actually clinically depressed but whom GPs may prescribe medication, but that's a problem with the physician, not the anti-depressant.  Natural cures and remedies for depression do not presently exist; none have been identified in clinical studies that are anywhere near as effective as modern antidepressants.
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