If you have a pro-choice mother you know she wanted to have you. She decided that giving up 9 months of her life was worth it to bring you into the world.
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When someone chooses to do something despite having the option to not do so it means a hell of a lot more than if they were forced.
Not to jump into this cesspool of flames regarding a topic I
really don't want to debate via the 'tubes (why the hell am I doing this...), but I did want to single out this line of thinking. Maybe it's a case of YMMV, but I'd infinitely rather have the mother whom I know would never have considered abortion in the first place, even if it came down to external influences, over the mother who could have easily prevented me from walking around in the world if her financial situation wasn't all that great, or she wanted to advance in her career, or she just didn't feel like having kids. (And what I'd really love to see is a world where those first two factors don't force someone into a decision that they wouldn't otherwise have taken, but we're a long way from that yet.) Given the choice (hee, how loaded that word's become), I'll always side with the option that would have utterly guaranteed me a shot at the world, and I'll have far more respect for that person. Who knows, maybe that's just me.
And just to throw in one last tidbit that's probably going to piss someone or other off, I don't see how the "personal responsibility" mantra is bollocks at all. I think we'd all agree that penis + vagina = pregnancy, at least at certain times of the month, and especially if there's nothing physical or chemical preventing the products of the two from coming together. Provided the two people putting said penis and vagina together both consent to it, that action is entirely in their hands (or loins), as are any potential consequences that may result from it. As horrifically naive and idiotic as the abstinence-only movement in this country has been in its execution, they at least get one little factoid right: the only way to absolutely ensure that there's no chance of pregnancy is not to have vaginal intercourse in the first place. Hell, if it's a matter of getting one's rocks off, why not just fap/schlick the day away and avoid all of the risks entirely?