[Scotty]

too immature and too easily manipulated by the bad influences of her friends to follow the rules of love and from her being weak minded

What are these rules and where may I find them?

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that being unfaithful, lying, and not sharing info is breaking the rules of a love relationship, if you have social skills or any knowledge of how love relationships work, that is. Or maybe some people don't mind people doing that to them if they lack self respect. You are 16 and I'm not sure if you had a serious relationship before yet, or maybe you don't see those qualities (honesty, being faithful, and communication) as something important in relationships? What the...? If someone is unfaithful and plays with my mind, you bet I won't let them get away with it and I will let people know the truth. What goes around comes around.

But must I continue talking about this? We can get back to discussing admired countries? I wonder if I made a mistake by discussing my story.

17 thank you.  I wasn't so much disputing that some things are reprehensible in realationships, merely trying to point out that there aren't really "rules" of love.  Or of anything else not academic, really.  If the rules are all relative, they aren't "rules."  Also, please leave speculation of my own personal life out of one of these discussions.  Feel free to bring up yours, of your own volition, but leave mine alone.


EDIT BEFORE THE POST:

Well, I consider stalking to be when you follow someone around physically. I think it is ok to gather data on people via the internet in order to find out if they are trustworthy or telling the truth. I might have been a good detective. My train of thought and lacking trust in many people has saved me a few times. I don't mind if someone sees data on me via the internet, but I'm usually careful not to post too much. Maybe I posta pic or 2 though.

Still stalking.  Stalking does not imply merely physical tailing.  Using your own "rules," might it not be better to just ask?

Anyway, who cares if we're still on topic?  It's an interesting discussion.

[Colonol Dekker]

It's not stalking it's research..



 

[Rian]

...So I had her give me her contact list and I gathered evidence and compared a name I heard in the that voice mail, was like Andre, but I found it to be Anh Tri after gathering data of his id on other websites and matching the voice mail memories I have in my head. He sounded like a VN/American and I found he lived in San Diego. Other data matched. One night I stood up until 7am looking for data.

Stalking.

Too bad for Anh Tri Nguyen when I posted in his Yahoo 360 profile about what I knew what he did, and I posted it for all his friends to read on his Yahoo 360 profile that I found. He eventually deleted his account after I did that several times, used fake emailer on him, told some of his contacts directly about what he did and what kind of person he is, and I even took some of his pictures as evidence and altered one of them in paint to have horns, a mustache, big thick eyebrows, a pointy go ti, and text that says (Anh Tri la trai dao duc) which means (Anh Tri is immoral), and then I put it as my display pic in my 360 profile and he even saw it :D:D Amazing what I can do without ever meeting him in person. I laugh and smile when I think about it.

Harrassment.

[General Battuta]

Relationships require a degree of trust. If that trust is burnt, so be it: it's part of what makes us human. I'd say that trusting and being burnt is a better decision than never trusting in the first place.

The benefits of trusting and being right, after all, are quite significant.

[Scotty]

AHA!  So YOU'RE the one who used that fake emailer!  Tip for next time:  It's NGTM-1R, not R1

[General Battuta]

Aha, yeah, I remember that.

If you're gonna harass fellow forumites under a false name you might as well get the false name right, High Max.

[High Max]

;-)

[General Battuta]

...So I had her give me her contact list and I gathered evidence and compared a name I heard in the that voice mail, was like Andre, but I found it to be Anh Tri after gathering data of his id on other websites and matching the voice mail memories I have in my head. He sounded like a VN/American and I found he lived in San Diego. Other data matched. One night I stood up until 7am looking for data.

Stalking.

Too bad for Anh Tri Nguyen when I posted in his Yahoo 360 profile about what I knew what he did, and I posted it for all his friends to read on his Yahoo 360 profile that I found. He eventually deleted his account after I did that several times, used fake emailer on him, told some of his contacts directly about what he did and what kind of person he is, and I even took some of his pictures as evidence and altered one of them in paint to have horns, a mustache, big thick eyebrows, a pointy go ti, and text that says (Anh Tri la trai dao duc) which means (Anh Tri is immoral), and then I put it as my display pic in my 360 profile and he even saw it :D:D Amazing what I can do without ever meeting him in person. I laugh and smile when I think about it.

Harrassment.

So, they deserved it. What they did was 10 times worse. Also, he shouldn't be dumb enough to post that info publicly. It was too easy. Also, if a girl loves me and I took her back, it is my business to make sure she means it and is honest and I have the right to know, and I saved myself. I made a smart choice and I would do it again.

@Bat: Well, I didn't study his name well enough. Usually I do. I also sent one to Nightmare posing as Mobius and let him know it was me when he opened it.

It was funny when I posed as someone appearing as their own sname and email and I let them know it was me and they thought I hacked their account but then I explained it to them and showed them the program.

Just preserving for posterity.

If you didn't seem so comically harmless I might bring you up for a ban.

I hope that some day you overcome your problems and achieve happiness.

[High Max]

;-)

[Mika]

To High Max,

For a martial artist, you seem to have a lot of time to spend in the net. Though I admit, you wouldn't be the first one that I have heard of. Also I don't think destroying somebody's reputation is what I would consider funny.

[High Max]

 

[Mika]

It is true, but my impression is that is largely a result of the country's recent economic history. 30 years no one had much in the way of real money, now everyone has opportunities so naturally they all want a slice of the pie.

I also thought that way before. Unfortunately, after thinking it a bit and pondering through all the evidence I have seen so far indicated that the current situation is nothing new in the history of China. PM me if you want to discuss this.

On topic, US reputation has changed really quickly around here and I think quite a lot of people see the current developments as a positive sign.

[High Max]

;-)

[Bobboau]

So, they deserved it. What they did was 10 times, no, 100 times worse. Also, Anh Tri shouldn't be dumb enough to post that info publicly. It was too easy. Also, if a girl loves me and I took her back, it is my business to make sure she means it and is honest and I have the right to know, and I saved myself. I made a smart choice and I would do it again.

wow poe's law.

I always knew you were a stupid ****er, but wow.

[High Max]

;-)

[Bobboau]

yeah, why don't you stalk me?
oh yeah, you already tried that, what did it get you?
I didn't even notice because you decided to respond with a four page vomit.
**** you you god damned idiot.

[Kosh]

She wasn't Japanese. She was a new gen VN girl who had some problems from her past but she tried to make most people think she was good. I was quite mean to her with my words after I found out. The average Vietnamese girl doesn't act crazy like that, but in some ways, the country is going through a 60's trend. The Japanese one I had was in person and a good women and was before this.

It's possible that Huyen loved me but was too immature and too easily manipulated by the bad influences of her friends to follow the rules of love and from her being weak minded, and perhaps didn't love me as much as she made me think. She is only 22 and was 19 at the time. After all, I seen her sad and cry on webcam sometimes and she told her family and I how she missed me and said it quite often. But when she got lonely, she probably often times loses control and was crazy sometimes and can't be trusted, is one reason she did those strange things. Also, it wasn't just an internet girl. I know her sister in person.

Anyways, I shouldn't talk more about it since it's offtopic.

Or perhaps you were too immature to realize that such a relationship had no substance to begin with. I find your obsession with people's premarital sexual behaviors as the biggest factor in determining cultures general lvel of respect to be highly illogical.

It lists Japan as the 5th most peaceful nation in the world.

It wasn't their choice, the US forced them to be this way.

So, they deserved it. What they did was 10 times worse.

If this was in the US you would be legally liable under the cyber bullying act.

[High Max]

;-)

[General Battuta]

Debating with High Max is a waste of time. He won't get it.

Let's not get started down this road.

[High Max]

Whatever