Seriously. My wallet screams every time I go to the pump.
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I went to the mountains and burned half a tank of fuel (and a nontrivial amount of tread from the tires) today. At $4.00 per gallon for petrol (and it's actually running about $3.54/gallon here), that would run me $26.00, which is two hours' and ten minutes' wage at my current job. Seems a fair trade for a weekend outing. Without the trip to the mountains, I burn that much petrol over the course of two weeks doing normal commuting and errands.
My parents were in the UK recently and after accounting for exchange rate and unit conversions, petrol worked out to about $10.00 per gallon. At that rate, today's outing (or two weeks of normal commuting) would have run me $65.00, or five hours' and twenty-five minutes' wage. I might not so casually drop that on a trip to the mountains, but it's still a pretty affordable rate for commuting.
Comparing notes with some of my SUV-driving coworkers, petrol prices would have to get to about $20.00 per gallon, before I have to drop as much money down the tank as they do at $4.00 per gallon. That's the point where I'd start to feel the hurt too. Once you crack a day's wage on two weeks of transit costs, life can get pretty uncomfortable.
I've been having this conversation offline too, and I always feel like I'm stating the obvious: Americans, goaded by salespersons and marketing, think of the most extreme situation in which they can imagine themselves taking a vehicle, and they buy the vehicle for that situation. My own father
almost bought a full-sized SUV himself because he thought it'd be great for a vacation to Colorado that he might take maybe four or five times in the life of the vehicle. Instead, he realized that the vehicle he was buying would be used 95% of the time (or more) by my mother for the grocery run and trips to neighboring towns within thirty miles, so he bought a reasonably-sized sedan. I could have bought a four-wheel-drive beast myself, reasoning that
sometimes I leave the beaten path and trek up the gravel logging roads in the area, but I knew that 95% of the time (or more), my car would be getting used for highway commuting with no passengers and little cargo, so I bought a compact. Because my parents and I bought vehicles for the circumstances we encounter nearly all the time, instead of the most extreme circumstances we could picture, we can go to the pump with fuel prices at $4.00 per gallon, and it doesn't hurt. We'll be able to go to the pumps with prices at $10.00 per gallon, and it's not going to hurt.
Anyway, try these, in order:
A) Drive with a lighter foot. Don't apply more than one-third throttle during acceleration (except in emergency maneuvers, naturally) and don't surpass 55mph. That's the speed at which most consumer internal combustion engines are most fuel-efficient, and the difference in fuel economy between 55mph and 65mph is significant.
B) Forego the car, when possible. No, American cities and suburbs are not particularly pedestrian- or cyclist-friendly, but grab a map, and you're sure to find some back-roads that are light in traffic or equipped with sidewalks/wide shoulders. Hell, there might even be some greenways in your area that you haven't found, because you haven't looked.
C) Find a better job. I'm grossing less than $25,000 per year, planting me pretty firmly in the lower tax bracket, and I can still casually burn half a tank of fuel on a weekend excursion at current fuel prices. If you're having a hard time keeping up with transit expenses, you should probably be looking for better employment anyway.
D) Buy a more appropriate car for your needs. If your commute doesn't involve a large, unavoidable off-road stretch, then you shouldn't be driving an SUV. If you aren't hauling/towing large loads on a regular basis, then you don't need a pick-up truck. If you don't regularly have to exceed 120mph, then you don't need a sport/muscle car. If you buy a compact/mid-size hatchback or sedan, you will enjoy greater fuel economy, improved safety, and on account of the reduced weight of the vehicle (as compared to trucks/SUVs) better acceleration and handling characteristics.
E) Whine about transit costs on the internet, and remain completely impotent as fuel prices creep higher in the coming years and decades.E) Lobby your local government to invest in better public transit and pedestrian-friendly infrastructure. Just don't go bat**** if it winds up requiring a tax increase, because it's your fuel cost that those tax dollars will be helping to keep down.