As a side note, according to the IAT, i'm a racist bastard

now i'm quite sure that this is partly to the following reasons:
my country is rather small and more predominantly white than others in the region.
people of other ethnicities are pretty much a rarity around here, even less so in my circle of "acquaintances" and others (i'm not much for going out these days anymore so yeah)
ergo, my inclination of facial recognition is obviously biased towards white people, due to the obvious lack of any interaction with people of other ethnicities.
also, is it horrible that i figured out the way it grades my score halfway through the test? the description afterwards just confirmed it...
for those wondering, white, asian and hispanic people are howering around the middle for me, while black are a bit more towards the "bad" side...
i also think that this in itself is an interesting subject to discuss and might warrant another thread.
as for the main "topic" of the thread... is it horrible of me that when i catch myself "gaslighting" my significant other, i stop myself and explain exactly what i had done to her to mess her up like that and explain to her what to look for to be able to figure it out on her own when dealing with other people, or myself even?