open question on integration of immigrants, what represents integration? does integration mean should they adopt the local language, values, religion, eating habits, style of dress, music? what is and is not appropriate to expect someone to change about themselves when moving into a new part of the world? or should the host culture should adapt to service the immigrant?
(Note: I included things in that list I don't agree with.)
If you come to somebody's house as a guest <immigrants are guests of some kind. Newcomers especially. This is a process that can take years> then you play by the rules dictated by your host. In exchange the host is obligated to treat the guest kindly. But if a country is giving people from another nation a helping hand, shelter, a chance start a new, normal life, then the refugee shall show 100% respect to the local culture and customs. No exception. Of course the same thing should be done by the locals but a situation where natives have to give up their casual code of behaviour is unacceptable.
Let's say there is a school. There is a list of rules, including the dress code for example. It may say that wearing any kind of head coverage inside the building is forbidden. Both for boys and girls. No hats, caps etc. And let's say that a family from Afghanistan wants to sign up their kids there. If their daughters are wearing hijabs, they take them off once they cross the doors of school. Without complaining or any kind of crying about "lack of cultural understanding", "put-a-proper-verb-phobia", etc.
My home, my rules. If I'll ever plan to move to another country I will do my best to adapt to the new society. Respect the customs, culture, everything.
So if my country accepts any amount of refugees they will have to adapt to us. Not
vice versa. No way around that. As I heared today, new Polish government says that we will give priority to the children and women. Then men. The last thing I want to watch in my neighbourhood are the groups of young, lone males waiting only to get welfare money and causing trouble.