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Off-Topic Discussion => General Discussion => Topic started by: captain-custard on December 23, 2008, 03:44:44 am
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so after a debate in one of the iamzack posts i was wondering what are youi all up too when the relationship depasses the man / machine realm
please be honest ... you can vote 3 times one for your relationship status ,one for your gender and one for your oreintation
i left the snuffle........ option out as relations with invisible life forms are technically virtual
ps please can the moderators not add voting options to the poll, if you waznt to see something added please post here and we can discuss it
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lol i'm sure many of us exit the realm of Freespace at least once a week
However I was interested in making a spoof campaign in which Karajorma was God in the form of a sath, and was subsequently assimilated into the freespace universe during the 70's as a US Army Black Project designed to fight the the Russians, but was scrapped and given to Interplay. So in that case Karajorma...
IS
FREESPACE
:lol:
and thus would never exit the realm and wouldn't be able to take part in the poll when selecting his gender, as you notably omitted Machine
joking, joking
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/me has voted.
I know a few girls, but I don't really like them more than my MacBook so... :p
...and I'm sure I identify as straight.
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Currently boning, i reckon i'll dump her by Feburary though....
:D
I juuts wanted another xmas / Valentines pressi first....
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/me has voted.
I know a few girls, but I don't really like them more than my MacBook so... :p
...and I'm sure I identify as straight.
MacBook over sex?
that must be some bad sex ;7
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I'm only 17, Dilmah. And Asian. You can't really expect much. :nervous:
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I'm only 17, Dilmah. And Asian. You can't really expect much. :nervous:
Well who am I to be talking anyway, I'm Sri Lankan-Australian, and 14
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11 votes. 10 Males. No Females. :lol:
It does appear as though we need more options....or less retarded voters. :p
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That just proves what I've stated earlier: sex is irrelevant at HLP.
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11 votes. 10 Males. No Females. :lol:
It does appear as though we need more options....or less retarded voters. :p
Oh, great. The Retards of HLP. :rolleyes:
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11 votes. 10 Males. No Females. :lol:
It does appear as though we need more options....or less retarded voters. :p
That just proves what I've stated earlier: sex is irrelevant at HLP.
it also shows what i said earlier has some truth .... ppl do love there computers......... (wonders how the hell you get it on with a mac airbook)
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11 votes. 10 Males. No Females. :lol:
It does appear as though we need more options....or less retarded voters. :p
Oh, great. The Retards of HLP. :rolleyes:
I'm not going to embaress myself as being named as one the above, I'd much rather come out and self-proclaim myself as one of the retards of HLP
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Why is there no "Single" option? There are people who are neither in a relationship nor slavishly devoted to their PC you know...
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Why is there no "Single" option? There are people who are neither in a relationship nor slavishly devoted to their PC you know...
fixed ( forgot that option existed , if and when im single i still tend to have girlfreinds )
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Married for six years now, (seven coming up next Sept'). We've been together for thirteen years or so now, Fourteen years this May! :eek2:
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Male, single, for the moment love my computer.
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Married for six years now, (seven coming up next Sept'). We've been together for thirteen years or so now, Fourteen years this May! :eek2:
Woah, 14 years
Male, taken, about 3 months and a bit, and my girlfriend is already starting to piss me off, let alone 14 YEARS, ****, I AM 14!
btw don't even ask about the sex, she isnt into pics :ick:
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Why is there no "Single" option? There are people who are neither in a relationship nor slavishly devoted to their PC you know...
fixed ( forgot that option existed , if and when im single i still tend to have girlfreinds )
How are they not mutually exclusive? There's a difference between picking up and girlfriends, IMO at least.
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everyone knows my story...
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everyone knows my story...
Heh. Damn straight we do.
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I needed four options to cover everything. :(
EDIT: Actually, five, to cover gender too. :P
To explain: I am male. I have a girlfriend. I identify myself as both hetero and bi at the same time, for the simple reason that I do not react to the human male form in a sexual sense but remain curious about the actual experience when it's a given that I'm never going to meet someone I'd actually care to try it with. (Wrap your head around that, if you can.) Also the committed relationship with the girlfriend involves sex toys. :P
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mmmmh . . . this is painful. I'm with a girl who's going up to a college town 90 miles away in a month, so I guess she's really just a fling, although I really wish she was more . . . but life is like that :sigh:
So yeah, I guess that would be closer to toy in a way, which is just a horrible thing to say.
But yeah, I'm not a total lamer, although some days it seems like it.
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(http://i209.photobucket.com/albums/bb317/Tyrkeyz/IsYourManGay.png)
:p
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I needed four options to cover everything. :(
EDIT: Actually, five, to cover gender too. :P
To explain: I am male. I have a girlfriend. I identify myself as both hetero and bi at the same time, for the simple reason that I do not react to the human male form in a sexual sense but remain curious about the actual experience when it's a given that I'm never going to meet someone I'd actually care to try it with. (Wrap your head around that, if you can.) Also the committed relationship with the girlfriend involves sex toys. :P
I believe the term is "bi-curious".
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Progress is slow no matter what I try. But there is progress...
16 yrs, single, hetero... And I love my computer up the butt.
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I've edited the poll to allow users to change their votes. It comes handy when additional options are added, like the single. As much as I wanted to fix spelling too, that is Goober's job. :p
Edit: WTF means "if it stays still long enough ill give it a try". :wtf: That can be interpreted in too many ways.
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It means that if they offer you a melon for dinner, don't accept. That's not good melon.
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No engaged option eh? Well, we're common-law status too so I guess I get to go with "wife."
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No engaged option eh? Well, we're common-law status too so I guess I get to go with "wife."
engaged is a girlfriend or boyfriend......... common law is as you have selected......... same rights as a married person without the inconvenience and expence of a wedding
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Been single all my life, and I don't see that changing any time soon. One has to actually know at least one female to have any hopes of starting a relationship with them. In the meantime, my computer gives me all the tough love I can handle. :p
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Alright so I'm an idiot and clicked single and then realized your gathering other data too. I should learn how to read and stop making fun of people who don't :D
Anyways...yeah ...single...its how things are. Things are too complicated for relationships...but it'd probably be nice. Then I could do the couple things that my friends are all into these days. I'm the token single person...have to keep up the representation you know.
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I believe the term is "bi-curious".
Except...I'm not. You're not quite grasping my point.
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I believe the term is "bi-curious".
Except...I'm not. You're not quite grasping my point.
... but if you're not bi-curious, that would just make you bi.v :wtf:
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W00t! I is in a real relationship now, with the best girl ever.
I have no originality.
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W00t! I is in a real relationship now, with the best girl ever.
I have no originality.
Thats probably ok. If it works for you...who can complain :)
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I'm in a relationship, not virtual (obviously). :nod:
/me wonder if the Administrators will be extending HLP member profiles to accomodate parts related to relationships and partners
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... but if you're not bi-curious, that would just make you bi.v :wtf:
Except the biology more or less rebelled and, as I noted, I can't be really considered bi or bi-curious because that implies some kind of possiblity it would actually happen, which, given the fact I don't react at all to guys, it isn't. So it's not even really bi-curious...it's academically curious.
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Woooo!!!! I'm not the only homo here. (According to the poll)
The other one is Turambar?
*looks at title*
Dude how the HELL did you hook up with my ex? :wtf:
No, I don't know your story. I guess I need to lurk moar.
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lol . . . iamzack is actually female, but is apparently optimally lesbian.
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ermmmm? :wtf:
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IDK, you read the relevent threads and tell me . . . I still don't understand.
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Male. Single. And, knowing how often I get out and my terrible sense of direction there's a good chance that I will remain depressedly so for the rest of my existence.
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Your post made me sad - get out there, talk to people. :yes:
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Woooo!!!! I'm not the only homo here. (According to the poll)
Damn! And I was so ready to give you a "The only gay in the village (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mqp2MjnYmf8&feature=related)" title. :)
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Your post made me sad - get out there, talk to people. :yes:
This is what I want and need to do. :blah:
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i will close the pole on new years day to give you all the chance of at least getting some action over the festive period, luckly decker has alredy voted so the stats won,t change to much!!!!
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Nope. I'm single, for good reason in Miami. Too bad--I'd like to tap Sara or Jennifer or Janaya or Hilary. But I don't want to catch an STD--it's too dangerous in Miami.
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Male, 19, hetero, on new years eve it'll be a year since i started to date my current girl.
Nuff said i'd guess, since i dont want to incur the wrath of wife to be :p
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Sorry, added an option and voted for it :p I felt the poll was incomplete without it.
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HA . . . hahahaha.
This poll is funny. Not because of the poll, but because the ad banner at the top just gave me the link to "Gay Chubby Dating".
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Your post made me sad - get out there, talk to people. :yes:
If only it were that easy. But now I'm just talking out of my ass.
I'm not ready for a girlfriend anyway. It's just kinda deprecating to not catch anyone's interest. Like, ever.
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Male, hetrosexual, and got into a relationship with my best friend officially a few weeks ago. Can't see us ever separating. :)
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All the best, WeatherOp. :yes:
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Your post made me sad - get out there, talk to people. :yes:
If only it were that easy. But now I'm just talking out of my ass.
I'm not ready for a girlfriend anyway. It's just kinda deprecating to not catch anyone's interest. Like, ever.
It is that easy. And how do you know you don't catch anyones interest? If you have friends just work your way around the social web, and you'll find someone. If you don't, get some :P
Male, hetrosexual, and got into a relationship with my best friend officially a few weeks ago. Can't see us ever separating. :)
Congrats, and good luck :nod:
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I'm engaged :) Actually useing her phone rightnow
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yes
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yes
Uh, what?
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Q: "Are you in a relationship (non virtual)?"
A: "Yes"
What's wrong with it?
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Oh, okay. I thought he was replying to the post(s) above his. My bad. :warp:
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Watson, Watson, Watson! I always have to teach you things!
:lol:
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I will never have a girlfriend because I am a douche with no life :sigh:
Not that I want a life.
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I will never have a girlfriend because I am a douche with no life :sigh:
Not that I want a life.
Okay now I'm going to come to your house, and literally DRAG you to Detroit with me
You WILL pick up some clueless chick
You WILL sleep with that clueless chick
and
You WILL bail on her the next morning
Understood soldier?
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I will never have a girlfriend because I am a douche with no life :sigh:
Not that I want a life.
Okay now I'm going to come to your house, and literally DRAG you to Detroit with me
You WILL pick up some clueless chick
You WILL sleep with that clueless chick
and
You WILL bail on her the next morning
Understood soldier?
You really, really don't understand the entire situation. Trust me on that.
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yes. you're a furry. big deal. get a clueless chick, dress her up in your favourite furry costume, bang her, bail, rinse, repeat.
or a furfag, your choice
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or a furfag, your choice
Wouldn't that be rather easy? :nervous:
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I think that's the point
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do i need to spell sarcasm in extremely huge, bold letters? god ****ing dammit.
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It's been said before, I'll say it again; sarcasm fails big time over the internet ...
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It's been said before, I'll say it again; sarcasm fails big time over the internet ...
Without tone of voice, you really have no ****ing idea what people are trying to say, including sarcasm
Which is y someone thought of these babies :) ;) :p :D :cool: :nod: ;7
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Sarcasm detectors have failed.... I think its time I leave this thread. Helm, engage subspace drive. :warp:
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well here we go the last 24 hrs of this poll and really ladies and gents its not looking good for the sexual activity of this forum , there are many here who could qualify for a darwin award if they continue.........
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well here we go the last 24 hrs of this poll and really ladies and gents its not looking good for the sexual activity of this forum , there are many here who could qualify for a darwin award if they continue.........
Pretty sure Darwin awards are granted only to those who successfully off themselves (and thus hopefully removing themselves from the genepool) doing something incredibly stupid.
Most of the folks here are young and have some time before they are no longer able to spawn. Since the majority are male...it'll be a while too!
On a more serious note...bringing children into the world is an expensive proposition and a very long term commitment. Better to have things sorted out in other areas prior to doing such a thing. Just common sense speaking. Not sure if being in college/university or attending high school is the right time these days. Perhaps in the 15th century.
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Snuffleupagus.
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Snuffleupagus.
Furvert!
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ok guys and gurls votings over i will pôst an analasys of the results tomorrow when im sober
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Snuffleupagus.
Furvert!
I hadn't thought of that...
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kara might be referring to the meaning of your nick. :nervous:
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Nope, I'm referring to him being in a relationship with Snuffleupagus.
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You know I try to make a point of distancing myself from the furry fandom for precisely this reason, but clearly I am doomed no matter what I do.
That was NOT what I was talking about.
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Y'know, I'm really starting to wonder if, having entered my fourth decade, I've become one of those dopey old farts who just doesn't seem to be able to keep up with the world any more. I just don't get what is going on with this whole "furry fandom" sex thing at all. Furverts? Yiffing? Someone did a study on this? I even read the Wikipedia entry quoted below but that just didn't help me either - if anything, I feel even more bemused.
Has the world moved on and left me behind? I know I'm not the most open-minded guy, but: "...about half of the furry fans are estimated to be in a relationship, with 76% of those having a relationship with another furry..."
WTF????
Wikipedia, BTW:
<< Differing approaches to sexuality have been a source of controversy and conflict in furry fandom.[citation needed] Examples of sexual aspects within furry fandom include erotic art and furry-themed cybersex.[43][44] The term "yiff" is most commonly used to indicate sexual activity or sexual material within the fandom—this applies to sexual activity and interaction within the subculture whether online (in the form of cybersex) or offline.[45][46] Many members of the furry community feel that the overly sexual component gives the rest of them a bad name, and may use the derogatory term "furvert" to describe such people. (See the following section for more details.)
The majority of furries report a non-judgmental attitude towards certain aspects of sexuality and a high tolerance for variety in sexual orientation and activity[citation needed]. 19-25% of the fandom members report homosexuality, 37-48% bisexuality, and 3-8% other forms of alternative sexual relationships. About 2% state an interest in zoophilia, and less than 1% an interest in plushophilia.[47][26] Initially, the bulk of these figures were collected by David J. Rust in 1997 but since then further research has been conducted to update these findings. About half of the furry fans are estimated to be in a relationship, with 76% of those having a relationship with another furry.[47][26] >>
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Yup, middle age, where our broad minds and narrow waists swap places ;)
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I'm already middle-aged? :eek:
Is thirty when it starts?
That ain't fair! I've still got it where it counts...
... somewhere ... dammit ... I had it a minute ago ...
Marge! Go fetch my viagra, will ya!?
:(
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Reading the last few posts, Unhappily Ever After comes to mind. :p
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:lol: I'm 36 and already working on my 'Get orf my lawn!' ;)
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Yup, middle age, where our broad minds and narrow waists swap places ;)
:wakka:
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I'm wondering if I'm currently having a relationship with that friend of mine whom I try to meet every Tuesday, Thursday and Friday.
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Try making a move, and see how s/he responds?
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I'm already moving!
...actually, more like meandering. :nervous:
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I'm already moving!
...actually, more like meandering. :nervous:
Well how far you gone with her?
And keeping with the forum topic, I just got rid of my girlfriend
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I take it that "got rid of" means that you did it on your own volition.
How far? Hmm...attempting to meet up with her every Tuesday, Thursday and Friday.
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Move faster! Feelings won't get out unless you say it with words. :nod:
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Move faster! Feelings won't get out unless you say it with words. :nod:
Amen
and yes, I did it, her lack of intelligence/and/or knowledge of C++ was beginning to annoy me :pimp:
and btw, actions speak louder than words, casual brush of the hand followed by a subtle grin/laugh/giggle by the chick is usually a good sign
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We laugh a lot, if that counts. :nervous:
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Yeah dude, I'm not exactly subtle about things, but you might just try telling her how you feel about her.
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She knows, but she wants to wait, which is why we're just meandering along very happily.
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She knows, but she wants to wait, which is why we're just meandering along very happily.
Unless she's said this out loud, I'm not sure I believe it.
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She knows, but she wants to wait, which is why we're just meandering along very happily.
please.
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She knows, but she wants to wait, which is why we're just meandering along very happily.
Unless she's said this out loud, I'm not sure I believe it.
To be honest, I'd be even less inclined to believe it if she had.
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Such incomprehensible creatures, women.
*grabs beer*
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She knows, but she wants to wait, which is why we're just meandering along very happily.
please.
is she asian? i would definetly believe it if she was
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She knows, but she wants to wait, which is why we're just meandering along very happily.
please.
is she asian? i would definetly believe it if she was
what's your problem
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lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break
i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian
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Now this is interesting!
What kind of asian? Oriental or subcontinental?
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Now this is interesting!
What kind of asian? Oriental or subcontinental?
Oriental, like the type that wore short skirts
Got good grades etc
Let me tell you
THE WAIT WAS WORTH IT!
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To be honest, I'd be even less inclined to believe it if she had.
Well, believe it. She did tell me, and at the moment, we're very contented with being friends.
Besides, the time we spend as friends is a good time to test if we can really get in a relationship. For now, the outlook is poor.
is she asian? i would definetly believe it if she was
We're citizens of the same country.
Such incomprehensible creatures, women.
*grabs beer*
Grab a stone and watch it weather too...this'll take a while. ;)
lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break
i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian
Keep in mind the cultural differences between the East and the West. You would do well to note that Asians are quite conservative unless if it concerns moneymaking.
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lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break
i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian
sounds like a solid case for generalizations there dude
rock solid
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To be honest, I'd be even less inclined to believe it if she had.
Well, believe it. She did tell me, and at the moment, we're very contented with being friends.
Besides, the time we spend as friends is a good time to test if we can really get in a relationship. For now, the outlook is poor.
I didn't say I found it hard to believe she would tell you. I said I'd find it hard to believe she'd tell you she wanted to wait before dating you and actually mean it.
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lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break
i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian
sounds like a solid case for generalizations there dude
rock solid
Yeah, I'm a narrow minded SOB
I think it'll do me better to refrain from putting forward my own personal experience in layman's terms, and rather just sit on the sidelines.
Yeah I also agree about the difference in terms with those issues between east and west, hell, I'm Asian by definition (Sri Lankan.... if you didn't already guess that by looking at my username) living in Aus. But people who grow up in a different environment at home and a dramatically different scene socially seem to rebel against one or the other, so I've grown up with a kind of distaste to the conservativeness and integrity of relationships my parents always talk about. It grows especially worse when your home life is pretty much like living in another country (...take a guess?), where anything related to Christianity, the West, the military etc can be met with a wall of criticism by the two domineering members of the family.
Anyway, is she hawwwt?
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No.
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No.
Well as long as she has some kind of 3 dimensional personality with some intellect it doesnt 'really' matter. It's better than talking to a bimbo who hasn't heard of Iraq before and believes President Bush is some kind of exotic plant from Mexico.
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lol yea fine fine we'll give u a break
i had a girl who once told me she wanted to wait.... she was asian
sounds like a solid case for generalizations there dude
rock solid
Yeah, I'm a narrow minded SOB
I think it'll do me better to refrain from putting forward my own personal experience in layman's terms, and rather just sit on the sidelines.
Yeah I also agree about the difference in terms with those issues between east and west, hell, I'm Asian by definition (Sri Lankan.... if you didn't already guess that by looking at my username) living in Aus. But people who grow up in a different environment at home and a dramatically different scene socially seem to rebel against one or the other, so I've grown up with a kind of distaste to the conservativeness and integrity of relationships my parents always talk about. It grows especially worse when your home life is pretty much like living in another country (...take a guess?), where anything related to Christianity, the West, the military etc can be met with a wall of criticism by the two domineering members of the family.
Anyway, is she hawwwt?
:lol: :lol: :lol:
Dilmah... you are so deep!
Seriously though, it is nice to hear from folks who aren't as utterly shallow as I was in my dating days. :yes:
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Hahaha
Well basically now I subconsciously do things that rebel against the social values my parents taught me (mostly my Mother, Jesus, her teenage years were more sheltered than a bloody dog's kennel, meaning she basically understands none of what I talk about). Now I'm the token Christian of our household because 'it made more sense than a bloody wheel' (apologies for any Buddhists here, I was 11 when I said that to my parents, I have a slightly more respectful attitude towards the religion now), I'm now the family's resident gangster (referring to clothing style only, my parents drug education seems to have penetrated my parental shields), and Military Cadet. Pretty much a summary of everything my Mother doesn't understand in the Western World. Hell, when I told her the guys in Easy Company in Band of Brothers were the kind of people I respected she didn't talk to me for about a week. But my Father's brother (my uncle) served in the sl army for quite a while before becoming a geo, so my dad has more of an insight into what I meant by that, as well as the fact he led pretty much the total opposite of my mother's adolescence, and knows what I mean when I say "I NEED these baggy jeans to LIVE! I dont' wanna get beat up on the way to the video store!" whereas my mother would rather tell me to 'listen to some real music' and 'get better grades', the latter of which she really pushes me to do, so I have respect for her for that. But otherwise she's basically a fish out of water when it comes to my social life.
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You'll probably get over the military stuff as you age. It's worthy of respect, but it's also an ugly business.
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You'll probably get over the military stuff as you age. It's worthy of respect, but it's also an ugly business.
Yeah, my Uncle (ret. Captain I think) told me some pretty grisly stuff about the civil war in sl
I don't think I'll ever be able to use my mate's body covered in loose leaves as cover... or tell my section that we'd have to leave the 2IC behind because his wounds were slowing the whole section down.
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I'm single because quite frankly everywhere i go, all the women are in relationships. And it pisses me the **** off!!! Not only that the women i do like and ask out turn me down. **** YOU BIATCHES!!! At least i don't get told the "i want to wait". Even though that may be a good response, it'd send me up the wall. I'd much rather not hear about a prospect that may or may not happen. To me, that responses garners in a cheesey ****ing answer that the girl could come up with to give me false hope because she didn't want to hurt me.
I'd rather be hurt than misled. I like yes's or no's the best. I have much more respect for a woman who'll tell me no than some bull**** answer. And i don't get hurt in hearing a no, i feel great comfort in getting a sure response. Regardless of whether or not i'll be pissed off temporarily. In which case prospects for women in fairbanks isn't really that great at all. I'm a nice guy with a good sense of humor and high self esteem and is intelligent (this is great because i'm not bland, i don't hate myself, and so on). Women get along great with me all the time. I'm raelly blunt with the things i say, but that's just me. I make sure that doesn't get in the way of things. At times it can. I have many woman friends, but this pisses me off. No female is romantically interested in me? WTF!!!
So i'm looking elsewhere. I did gain yellow fever recently, but whatever. I still have hope for the area i'm living right now.
Time for some beer at the bar a block away now. Of which to stay away from the hot chicks with kids, which just makes me think "OH NOW YOU WANT SOMEBODY WHO'S COOL HEADED AND STABLE?"
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S-99, I hope you don't believe them. There are many women who claim to be in a relationship while the truth is different.
And even women engaged with someone else might spend a night(or an afternoon) with you.
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Well I'll tell you what a 'player' once said to me, and it's helped a lot
You say you have a lot of Chick Friends, that's your problem right there, if you buy her a drink, pay her compliments, act as her f*cking doormat, she's going to treat you like a girlfriend, that's right, girlfriend, she's going to talk with you for hours about all kinds of 'chick issues', that's not getting you anywhere is it? I'm not saying you shouldn't buy a woman a drink, rather you she should probably be your gf before you start doing so.
If you do buy her the drink at the bar kinda thing, you're just like every other guy whose come, tried, and failed, and is now at the bottom of her fonebook. Point I'm making is, you have to be DIFFERENT, by this I don't mean you dress like I do/as if you're my age (I'm assuming you're dramatically older than me, like most other people here), I mean you have to come off as confident, funny, smart, cool... in other words, not her F*CKING DOORMAT!
Now you do that, by acting different, you have your own style now, from this day onwards, you shall never buy women drinks, women buy YOU drinks. That means you act confident, hell, slightly arrogant (not in general, just to women, to show you're funny, have good self esteem), now don't take that the wrong way and walk up to the local bimbo and throw her drink in her face and tell her to buy another one. That's called being an asshole. You have to come off decent, but not 'too nice', it's okay to act like you normally would and actually buy her drink once in a while, but seriously, EVERYONE does that, it is OLD, if you see another guy doing it and failing, learn a lesson from it, and don't do it.
Don't think Im saying every chick out there is a ***** either, there are nice chicks, but you need to give them a reason to like you, is your hair good? do you work out? do you make money (if your looking at a goldigger, still helps sometimes though), are you UNIQUE? are you NOT a carbon copy of every white male out there
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At the moment, I'm feeling juuuuuuust fine being single. It makes the world a lot easier to handle for now.
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You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. :lol:
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You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. :lol:
Until you're single again.
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You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. :lol:
Until you're single again.
I can sadly relate to this at the moment... meaningless encounters with someone who didn't have a clue where Iraq was on the map suddenly seem more attractive now
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I dislike ignorant girls(and, more in general, people). They may beautiful and attractive but if they show me their impressive ignorance and shock me, then...well...I don't want to deal with them anymore. :wtf:
EDIT: Fixed "may".
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I dislike ignorant girls(and, more in general, people). They me beautiful and attractive but if they show me their impressive ignorance and shock me, then...well...I don't want to deal with them anymore. :wtf:
That's the way I felt with her, and now I'm regretting it, caus one of my best friends is rooting the chick i was meant to be rooting
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Wow, uh, some of you sound pretty frustrated. Which I certainly don't disrespect, but I hope that doesn't translate into rage towards women.
I dislike ignorant girls(and, more in general, people). They me beautiful and attractive but if they show me their impressive ignorance and shock me, then...well...I don't want to deal with them anymore. :wtf:
That's the way I felt with her, and now I'm regretting it, caus one of my best friends is rooting the chick i was meant to be rooting
You were meant to be rooting? That doesn't seem to leave much room for her desires in the equation.
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Depends on wheter or not you want a serious relationship. If everything you want is to f**k then you shouldn't care about her ignorance...but if you do want to experience something serious then forget about her.
Ignorant people are very likely to come from ignorant families. My gf is not ignorant, I met her when I was still attending the lycee, but her relatives are. And that bugs me because I usually feel like "What kind of people are those?!? :wtf:"
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You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. :lol:
Its a weird state of being. Its getting over that part from the single to being in a long lasting relationship that is so chaotic and turmoil filled. Nobody ever has good advice for that part. Only the lead up to it.
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How can there ever be advice for something like that? Everybody's different, and as no two people are alike, the same goes for relationships.
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True, but there are groups of individuals who have something in common. We're not 100% different to anyone else.
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:nod:
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I feel like I'm just fine staying in the "single and not looking for a relationship" stage for the foreseeable future. :p
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That's where I was, and then an amazing one came and surprised me.
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That's where I was, and then an amazing one came and surprised me.
Trouble is, you have to know at least a single one in general to find said amazing one. :p
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That's where I was, and then an amazing one came and surprised me.
Trouble is, you have to know at least a single one in general to find said amazing one. :p
This. :(
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That's where I was, and then an amazing one came and surprised me.
Trouble is, you have to know at least a single one in general to find said amazing one. :p
QFT
Its true...everywhere I go now and not a single single girl in sight. Well a small few....but nothing clicking there. The last wedding I was at I don't think there was anyone single there at all. I'm thinking the last resort of online dating may still come up. Those eHarmony commercials are starting to work.
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You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. :lol:
Its a weird state of being. Its getting over that part from the single to being in a long lasting relationship that is so chaotic and turmoil filled. Nobody ever has good advice for that part. Only the lead up to it.
Maybe I just got lucky then, I mean we had a ruff spot that nearly took us apart, but it really only strengthened our relationship in the end. I wasn't looking for a relationship, not even a friend, yet I not only found the best friend I could ever ask for, but also found the person I love dearly and somehow loves me. For those who believe in God, I know we were set up, for those who don't just come to your own conclusion.
But, the reason I said it was comical, is that maybe if you can't find someone, just don't get desperate. I just wonder if most aren't willing to go through the time it takes to create a strong relationship and just want something to occur overnight, and BTW that includes listening to problems and sincerely wanting to help out, not just wanting them to fall into your arms for listening.
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You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. :lol:
Its a weird state of being. Its getting over that part from the single to being in a long lasting relationship that is so chaotic and turmoil filled. Nobody ever has good advice for that part. Only the lead up to it.
Maybe I just got lucky then, I mean we had a ruff spot that nearly took us apart, but it really only strengthened our relationship in the end. I wasn't looking for a relationship, not even a friend, yet I not only found the best friend I could ever ask for, but also found the person I love dearly and somehow loves me. For those who believe in God, I know we were set up, for those who don't just come to your own conclusion.
But, the reason I said it was comical, is that maybe if you can't find someone, just don't get desperate. I just wonder if most aren't willing to go through the time it takes to create a strong relationship and just want something to occur overnight, and BTW that includes listening to problems and sincerely wanting to help out, not just wanting them to fall into your arms for listening.
Yeahh I agree with you, you've got to genuinely want to sit through everything and like the person for who she is, looks wither with age etc
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You know, I knew it before, but now that I'm in a relationship, it really makes the "single guy looking for a girl" scenario even more comical. :lol:
Its a weird state of being. Its getting over that part from the single to being in a long lasting relationship that is so chaotic and turmoil filled. Nobody ever has good advice for that part. Only the lead up to it.
Maybe I just got lucky then, I mean we had a ruff spot that nearly took us apart, but it really only strengthened our relationship in the end. I wasn't looking for a relationship, not even a friend, yet I not only found the best friend I could ever ask for, but also found the person I love dearly and somehow loves me. For those who believe in God, I know we were set up, for those who don't just come to your own conclusion.
But, the reason I said it was comical, is that maybe if you can't find someone, just don't get desperate. I just wonder if most aren't willing to go through the time it takes to create a strong relationship and just want something to occur overnight, and BTW that includes listening to problems and sincerely wanting to help out, not just wanting them to fall into your arms for listening.
No problems with any of that. Even met a couple of people that I think I'm compatible with and just have that feeling that they could be the right one ...which is where the other shoe always drops. Not single...not for a long time...totally unavailable. I got burned waiting for one once just to see if that would work.
Not desperate...but sometimes its a bit hard: only single person in the entire venue, only single person in the party, gift cards such as movie night free for two, trips I'd like to take...but have to go by myself (meeting new people is fine and all...do it all the time...but ...usually unfulfilling), etc.
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Well parties no one is really single, it's just they were before the party and will be immediately afterward.
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At least you're getting out there. I've rarely talked to anyone outside of my immediate family (whom I live with) since I left school this past May. Not only have I never read the book of love, I've never even set foot in a library. :p
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As far as getting out and being with friends....that takes work and sometimes its serious amounts of work. People will remember if you go to something but they will remember even more if you didn't. As much as I hate it.,.Facebook has been key for both keeping in touch with people as well as organizing events within my circles of friends. I'm out every weekend or every other weekend...
Keep up with people. Invest the time. Its worth it.
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As far as getting out and being with friends....that takes work and sometimes its serious amounts of work. People will remember if you go to something but they will remember even more if you didn't. As much as I hate it.,.Facebook has been key for both keeping in touch with people as well as organizing events within my circles of friends. I'm out every weekend or every other weekend...
Keep up with people. Invest the time. Its worth it.
:nod: Yep. Except I have MySpace instead of Facebook. *Waits for flak* :p
Although I haven't attempted as much as you. :sigh: Because I'm a bit lazy. I'll try to try, though, since it was my New Year's resolution.
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My main problem here is that, quite honestly, I don't have any friends at all around here, at least not in the face-to-face sense. (Hell, I don't really have any acquaintances, even.) I didn't keep in touch with any of my high school classmates after I graduated (which was a good five years ago), and I only really made one or two good friends over my college years. I have been keeping in sporadic IM contact with my best friend from school (who, amusingly enough, just got engaged to her boyfriend at the same school), but that's about it. I'm not saying this in a moping way or as someone who's looking for sympathy, but I really don't have any sort of physical social interaction at all at the moment. What I do have is a great group of online friends I got involved with via a particular forum, so I'm not entirely cut off from the outside world, but even then, I balk at the idea of meeting them face-to-face.
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Thats the way I felt after I left highschool. I suppose you've moved a few times in between? That makes things hard. If someone is more than an hour drive away its often impossible to keep things up.
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Thats the way I felt after I left highschool. I suppose you've moved a few times in between? That makes things hard. If someone is more than an hour drive away its often impossible to keep things up.
20 minutes away for me and I believe 10 or more minutes don't really make the difference. I know a guy who takes about one hour and a half to visit his gf without any problems.
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Thats the way I felt after I left highschool. I suppose you've moved a few times in between? That makes things hard. If someone is more than an hour drive away its often impossible to keep things up.
Not once, unless you count going to school and back every semester. We've lived in this house for more than 15 years now. Unfortunately, said longevity has done nothing to aid my social life. :p
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Thats the way I felt after I left highschool. I suppose you've moved a few times in between? That makes things hard. If someone is more than an hour drive away its often impossible to keep things up.
20 minutes away for me and I believe 10 or more minutes don't really make the difference. I know a guy who takes about one hour and a half to visit his gf without any problems.
I just mean friends in general. If its your girlfriend and thats how it has to be...then thats doable I suppose. I know people who have managed. I have no idea personally.
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I hope its manageable, because its what ima be doing soon
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Well, depends...now, with the University, my friends are spread all over Italy but we try to keep in touch if possible. Let's face it, friends and gfs usually aren't conveniently close to us.
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Or in my case just not convenient at all.