[vyper]

Originally posted by Kalfireth

Worthing is not a violent town, people just don't do that stuff to eachother - ever.

Not even kinky sex?

[an0n]

*waits for Shrike to post something*

[Fineus]

Not that I can telly vyper, and believe me - I have been looking

[an0n]

I've thought of a simpler, more expressive way convey the way in which you should act towards people trying to put/beat you down:

Act superior and condesending. Like being near them is offensive to you. Like it's not even worth your time to stand there and let them be ass-holes.

[Fineus]

What if they themselves are your friends - you don't want to be superior (as they're likely to ignore you) but on the other hand you don't want every day to be treated like a competition where they beat down on you?

[Knight Templar]

What are you saying? Do you get beat at arm wrestling by your girlfriend a lot?

[an0n]

Originally posted by Kalfireth
What if they themselves are your friends - you don't want to be superior (as they're likely to ignore you) but on the other hand you don't want every day to be treated like a competition where they beat down on you?

Then you act distant, only really talking or interacting with them if and when you chose to do so.

[Fineus]

Mmm, you can tell I've got people problems right now can't you

In actual fact (aside from violence) I've tried everything you've suggested. Unfortunately when I act distant it comes off as moody, and so people ignore me right back and when I ask why they say "because you were all grumpy, we didn't think you wanted us to be around".

They have a point.

[an0n]

These people sound like weak, whiney *****es. Find new, more violent friends.

[an0n]

Oh, and as a general piece of advice for everyone reading the thread: Get some ****ing balls.

If your friends are dick-heads, get new friends. If someone pisses you off, punch them in the face until they fall down. If you get the crap kicked out of you, so ****. It's not like losing one fight is going to kill you (unless you're like me and tend to fight complete psychopaths (I once got in a fight with a guy who was holding 6 lawn-darts, that was fun)). If someone mocks you and makes you feel like crap, tell them you had sex with their mother. It's really not that hard to understand.

[01010]

Originally posted by an0n
Find new, more violent friends.

Sig Material.

However violent friends is most definitely

[Knight Templar]

I don't know how much more englightenment I can take from one thread

[TheVirtu]

Originally posted by Knight Templar
I don't know how much more englightenment I can take from one thread

Haha, got that right....

*high pitched sound* "BULLIES BEWARE! FEAR MY LEVEL 28 WIZARD!!!!"

[Sesquipedalian]

Originally posted by kasperl
ok, i've read the answers, and as far as i can see, CP is the only one who agrees with me on the backpack thing. if i do change it, it will take about one week for the to find something else to harras me with. i don't think that this will ver stop, but i don't want to think about it, it will. just depress me more.

I'm guessing you missed my post back on the first page.  As one who suffered such abuses in high school prior to learning the advice I gave to you, I can tell you it works.  If they are throwing food at you, expect it to take some time, but it will work.

[Sandwich]

Originally posted by Kalfireth
Mmm, you can tell I've got people problems right now can't you

In actual fact (aside from violence) I've tried everything you've suggested. Unfortunately when I act distant it comes off as moody, and so people ignore me right back and when I ask why they say "because you were all grumpy, we didn't think you wanted us to be around".

They have a point.

I'd suggest a simple, non-confrontational confrotation - telling them exactly what it is that's bothering you, and why. You'd be amazed at the respect and consideration plain honesty brings.

[Knight Templar]

Originally posted by Sandwich


I'd suggest a simple, non-confrontational confrotation - telling them exactly what it is that's bothering you, and why. You'd be amazed at the respect and consideration plain honesty brings.

You'd also be amazed how stupid and whiney "friends" are when you give them a spoonfull of the truth

It all depends on wether you have worthwhile friends or not.

[Stealth]

Originally posted by an0n
These people sound like weak, whiney *****es. Find new, more violent friends.

with all due respect dude, you sound like you're wayyyy bigger than your boots.

[Knight Templar]

Originally posted by Stealth


with all due respect dude, you sound like you're wayyyy bigger than your boots.

Tell me if anyone else finds this funny. Stealth, what is it tonight? Are you just delirious over the raider loss or what?

[Stealth]

Originally posted by Knight Templar




Tell me if anyone else finds this funny. Stealth, what is it tonight? Are you just delirious over the raider loss or what?

naaa

also the Rockets just lost to the Bulls

they beat the lakers earlier last week

[Knight Templar]

*hates basketball*