Originally posted by Bobboau
is there some way to lower XPs crashiness, like some setting that would let little things go without crashing
Who installed the OS for you? The company? What did they load on?
If you can...format, do a clean install (no upgrades - note: even the upgrade version will do a full install provided you have an old Windows CD lying around for verification). Then, let Windows XP configure itself...do not install any video or sound drivers unless it automatically does so. If not, wait till later. Then, get the latest (or best working) video and sound drivers for your particular hardware and install those. Do not install anything from Gator, do not install any fancy shell integrated systems (Creative labs, Microsoft, and Corel love to do this) so on and so forth. The damage caused just by installing this stuff is astronomical.
A quicker fix that doesn't involve formating is to do this. Star > Run > msconfig
Click on the services and startup tabs and uncheck suspicious and uneeded services and startup applications. When in doubt, leave it, but if it doesn't look essential then remove it (again, unless you know you need it). The best thing is that if you screw it up...just run msconfig again and check things back in till it works nicely.
Another thing to look out for is Quick Time...I find that causes crashes sometimes...even in XP. But Bobboau, a hourly crash from Windows XP means that there is something VERY wrong with the drivers, the OS install, or the hardware. I crash perhaps once weekly and as Tiara puts it - only when I've done something stupid to make it crash.

normal operations doesn't cause any instability...its usually testing a FS Open EXE or something that will force me to reset and its never a hardcrash requiring the reset button.

, on this computer, I have used reset twice
