I make no distinction. A country is created for a practical purpose: to organize the people and provide for our needs. I do not believe that this function demands our love or our thanks, only that we contribute what we can as long as we live here. Love of a country is meaningless because a country does not stand for anything; it is a dynamic entity whose supposedly steadfast principles can be made to support just about anything by skilled leaders. It's the same as trying to attach spiritual beliefs to an institution. Why should I love this country more than any other simply because I live here? I'm certainly glad that I don't live in an oppressive society, but I see nothing to love. The flag? That's idol worship. Principles? They always shift. The people? All people are fundamentally the same.
As far as I can see, the only thing that love of country accomplishes is to make you, as Ambrose Bierce put it, "The dupe of statesmen and the tool of conquerors." I have my own, ever-evolving beliefs, and while I would never expect a country to always coincide with them, I do not believe that I owe it my love, especially since it was created for the sole purpose of sustaining us.