Originally posted by icespeed
by the way, as a native-born chinese, i'd like to point out that the asian work ethic _does_ exist and it _does_ make a huge influence on our lifestyle and culture, but it does _not_ preclude happiness, since happiness is largely dependent on what you think it is.
i've grown up with competition and industriousness, and the only reason i'm unhappy with that mindset is because i live in australia where (no offence) the white kids never did any work cos their parents didn't care enough to force them to, so i had something to compare my own lifestyle with. when you're living in cities full of other people for whom promotion and getting a better quality of life is pretty much everything, you define what makes you happy differently- i know people who quite happily worked their fingers to the bone during their prime years for a big retirement package, even though they may not be able to enjoy the money in the same way.
another reason for the hard working thing is the family- you work hard to make sure your family has enough support when you're gone, especially if you're the husband of the household.
okay, i'll stop lecturing on asian fiscal culture now.
I was one to grow up on the side that wasn't pressured to study very much etc. After coming through the educational system (and am about to go back into it) I got a good understanding of myself and the system.
I can look back and say that I honestly wish my folks were harder on me and made me concentrate on study. I virtually got no orders to do Homework etc. Luckily I hung out with smart friends, and partly through peer pressure and some friendly competition I made myself study and work harder.
Looking back I wish I'd had the pressure much earlier. I realized the sensible thing to do a little to late, and wasn't really as much effort as I could have put towards it. I walked away from highschool with an OP of 8, which is not bad at all. But I fully believe I could of achieved an OP1 had I learnt to concentrate on my work much earlier.
But I still enjoyed the freedom I did have. If an equilabrium could be found between the two, that would be perfect paranting. Some day, I hope to accomplish that. (In the distant, distant future that is

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Originally posted by EtherShock
Now that is a generalization. We are not all stupid idiots that take "King George's" words as gospel. We just unfortunately seem to be the minority. I hate what he's done. I resent that remark.
I'm sorry mate. I was quite tired while typing that so my grammer was out a bit and I didn't really get across what I meant properly.
I meant that the people who
usually listen to and believe most if not all of what Bush says appear less conscious of all the facts. I'm gathering from the fact that George is still in Presidency that the majority of voting american's agree for the most part in what he has to say.
I know that not all American's think one way. I recall how an American comedian touring Australia was saying how the majority of the public are so misinformed. How he reads news articles online and from non-american writers to get all pieces of the story.
Also, whenever a political item comes from america, there always seems to be a focus on Terror, a fine example being the China article. Even the way the article was written the writer IMO slightly came across as "American's should be afraid of China". The government always seems to be instilling fear in the people, something that China obviously did not buy.
So sorry if I came across as stereo-typing the american people, it was not my intent.
Though I have to admit, I honestly cannot recall one instance where George Bush appeared / acted intelligent.