The X-35 has flown several times. Its now been retired and is going to a museum somewhere. I forget which. The F-35 has not yet flown but it will be in the next few months as I understand it.
The F-22 is far far far more expensive than the F-35. The F-35 is, in general, meant to be like what the F-16 was when the F-15 was introduced. The F-15 was expensive but the F-16 was cheap so they had a first and second rate fighter. Ultimately what happened is the F-16's role expanded into ground attack and became a multi-role aircraft. Its capabilities were impressive and it kept being expanded. I'd daresay that in some respects the F-16 is just as capable or moreso than the F-15. Each has their place.
With the F-22 the concept is the same. The F-22 is the premier out and out fighter. The F-35 is a multirole attack platform perfect for the US forces but also for its allies. Its a force multiplier basically because the F-35 uses some of the same datalink technology so American F-35s and F-22s operating alongside Allied F-35s get a massive combined overview of the battlefield. Even aircraft not emiting radar (and thus not showing up on the RWR of the enemy aircraft) have the ability to track the enemy through the datalink.
I did some reading over the last few days. The F-22 and F-35 to a lesser extent are more stealthy than the F-117. The F-117 is barely stealthy in comparison to the new aircraft. What neither F-22 nor F-35 have is full stealth against all bands of radar. Advanced ground radar can still track them but aircraft radar cannot. Even with tracking, they are still difficult to lock. So modern stealth warfare is not so much about being invisible but being a hazy shadow...if there are

of shadows its going to take a while to try and sort them out.
Throw in some UAV's with similar signatures and you'll have a hell of a confusing mess of a radar screen. Thats the idea.