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Offline Thorn

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Notice how quickly the topic changes....

 

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Originally posted by Carl:
only we would go from premarital sex to pee.

YOu have no one to blame but yourself, Carl.   You brought it up.  

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I blame myself really

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Where has this sick and humorous topic gone too...    

this topic is worth two cents; the same amount the comics in the Saturday West are worth  

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Originally posted by Carl:
only we would go from premarital sex to pee.

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Originally posted by Top Gun:

Just for those "I believe 100% of what the bible says" people amongst us, here's Top Gun's big ol' list of quotes that you also must believe:

Deuteronomy 21:18-21
 "If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son. . . bring him out unto the elders of his city. . .And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you. . ."  

Psalm 137:9
"Happy shall he be, that taketh and dasheth thy little ones against the stones." -  Premarital sex is bad Stoning children to death is good.

Malachi 2:3
"Behold, I will corrupt your seed and spread dung upon your faces."  - don't knock it until you've tried it  

Deuteronomy 28:53
"And thou shalt eat of the fruit of thine own body, that of thy sons and of thy daughers, which the LORD thy God hath given thee" - No premarital sex for you guys but you can eat your children if you like.

Notice however that all of these references are from the Old Testiment. The law changed from the OT to the NT and over time. Try to understand all the Bible has to say before criticizing it.
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Alright, let's get away from the urination (someone here has a weird fetish    ) and back to the sex!
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  thank you Carl for getting us back on topic.
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Offline CP5670

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bah, screw the sex and go to the mechanics !  

[This message has been edited by CP5670 (edited 01-19-2002).]

 
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Offline CP5670

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lol yeah I should probably make that section a bit cleaner.

  

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lol yeah I should probably make that section a bit cleaner.  

That's your work, CP?

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Offline Dranon

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Originally posted by Thorn:
You know, Ive been thinking about this, and Ive decided, its none of your damn business what two consenting people do together...

I'm with Thorn on this one.  

If she gets pregnant, you better take care of her though.  Guys who ditch pregnant girls are the lowliest of the low.
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ok......i just got in, havent been on since jan 19 morning eastern time right. and i come back tonight, 3:14 am, eastern Jan 20th.....in 1 day, this has been the most talked bout topic i am assumingin HLPBB history lol............. seriously, i never seen such a topic grazed like this especially a non freespace related question. hell even real life makes its way onto cyberspace.
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well heres my TWO CENTS.
-Its funny that you guys brought up sex. i was talking to a friend of mine i go clubing with, and tonight before i got in and got online to see the forums, we were talking about how she has had sexual issues in the past, enough to really be ashamed of, shes 22. so imagine. i compare that to myself being i am 19, i have done the same actions, only accept i wasnt the one taking advantage of anyone. mind u we r both not married. so if ur asking is it bad to have premarital sex, its really diffrent from person to person. some people rather wait till there married (but that is also a myth as well, its ok to unlock yourself mentally and welcome sex the second u get married). but in reality, its all about really who your feeling having sex with (if u havent yet), and if your both mentally, physically, and possibly spiritually ready. its really, up to you to decide if its bad or good. no one else, to say sex is bad before marridge i am sorry, is following the masses opinion. thus being a follower. hoesntly if u find the one u want to do it with, go for it, especially if ur partner feels she/he's ready for it.

i do alot of sexual education on the side for alot of high school students by my old HS, and i work partime in a adolencset clinic, and i get this sorta questions all the time. if u want details or more help or advice on this subject shrike and sandwich, feel free to email me.

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Originally posted by mikhael:
Sex, in and of itself, is an action. Its not moral or immortal, right or wrong. Its like breathing. Its built into us. Sex is a natural part of the human species, coded into the very essence of our being. The key word here is 'natural'.

Religion, marriage, and their trappings, are not natural. They are an artificial construct of Man. As such, they come kind of late to the whole organic reproduction party. Man was having sex before religion and marriage.

Sex is a natural, wonderful thing. Why cloud it up with all that extraneous and irrelevent folderol? If you feel its the right thing for the two of you and your partner feels its the right thing for the two of you, its okay. If its not right for either or both of you, its not okay. Its a pretty simple thing.


totally agree with this as well. some good advice guys! i dunno bout u all, cause u know, its diff from town to town how secual acts are achieved or thought about, but overhere in NYC, yo, honestly although i said what i said, cats would look at u or i for saying such things as if gay. but thats there imaturity and ignorence and thats whyt hey have 2 baby mommas and possibly an STD. its a natrual act. go for it. just ake sure the person its with is worth it.

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Wow - talk about concieving a monster, Shrike!  

Before I begin, keep in mind that everythnig I say here is my personal beliefs, and that even if I say that I believe something is wrong/sin, I'm not going to condemn you or push for you to chnge your way. As a born-again Christian I see much of what's going on in the world today as sinful, but I'm not out on the streets preaching hellfire and damnnation. If somebody asks me about my faith, great. If not - no problem.

 
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Ya know what's interesting....most of the "hardcore" Christian families I know..I mean the if you so much as defy you're parents once as a child you're in danger of going to hell type...all the kids are hopping beds at 14 and under even. My best bud's GF knows two gals like that...one of whom's folks built a seperate room just to hold the roughly 1200 versions of the bible they own,..yet she's only 15 and had damned near as many partners as I've had at 27

Unfortunately this is quite true, but don't get me started on the state of Christianity today. Let's just say that "the world" and "chistianity" are not black and white - they have the smoothest gradient of greys imaginable between them. I find that troubling, personally.

 
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...was alot of the folks that do belive it's a sin, bad, evil, or even just poor taste,..do tend to attempt pushing that belief upon others.

Yes, they do. If you were 100% convinced that you knew the truth about something, wouldn't you want to see other people come to realize that truth as well? Regardless, like I already said - I ain't gonna push.  

 
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umm...every sin condemns you to hell. if you steal a peice of candy from your little brother, you're going to hell. why? because heaven requires 100% perfectness. would you drink a glass of water if it had just one tiny drop of cyanide in it?

This is what the Law of the Old Testament came to prove - nobody can lead a sinless life. Which is why the events of the New Testament occurred - just like Abraham said to his son Issac as they were going up the mountain to sacrifice to God: "God will provide the lamb". At that time, God saw Abraham's willingness to obey even unto his son's death, and provided a ram instead. Thousands of years later, God provided the Lamb.  

 
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I didn't bother to read the new testament. The whole Jesus thing sounds like a pile of ****  to me. I prefered the vengeful, angry God in the Old Testament.

Hmmm - just to show you how mistaken you are in that generalization:

Jeremiah 31:3-4 "The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness. I will build you up again and you will be rebuilt, O Virgin Israel. Again you will take up your tambourines and go out to dance with the joyful."

Revelation 14:19-20 "The angel swung his sickle on the earth, gathered its grapes and threw them into the great winepress of God's wrath. They were trampled in the winepress outside the city, and blood flowed out of the press, rising as high as the horses' bridles for a distance of 1,600 stadia."

 
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And if God created man in his own image then we're all perfect right?

If sex before marriage was a sin then all those people who were around before the bible and its definition of marriage are screwed (figuratively and literally).

Yes, we were perfect, until Adam and Eve allowed sin to come into their lives.

And sin is defined by the law, and by the concience that God has given Man. THerefore, there was no sin before the law. The first "do not", however, was back in Genesis 2:17 "...but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."

Which they went ahead and did.

 
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The key thing with this discussion is that everyone continues to respect the decisions, beliefs and opinions of others.

A good quote to close with.  

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Offline Warlock

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You know...only here could we HAVE this type of discussion and it STAY civil.

 

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Offline Setekh

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Sandwich has summarised beautifully what I wanted to say. I'll just elaborate on a couple of his points.  

 
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Yes, they do. If you were 100% convinced that you knew the truth about something, wouldn't you want to see other people come to realize that truth as well? Regardless, like I already said - I ain't gonna push.

Yeah, true there. I mean, if you see it from a Christian perspective (I don't want to force you, but if you'd like), it's kind of like... calling out to someone who's running off the edge of a cliff. Are you gonna whisper, or are you gonna yell? That said, it's what I believe, but you don't have to agree at all.  

 
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Originally posted by sandwich:
Hmmm - just to show you how mistaken you are in that generalization:

Agree here too, though there's something else to be said here: somewhat like other books, the Bible is really difficult to take pieces out of. It's the context problem - a lot of books have problems when you take parts of what they say out of context, but the Bible is an extraordinary case. It was written as a huge cross-reference system. So, do be careful. I'm aware too that some things seem to contradict each other or depict something that seems incorrect; but it takes a lot of effort to understand a lot of these things. They were, after all, written by a God; but anyway, no need to argue on that, since there's no point.  

 
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A good quote to close with.  

Most definitely. Try and keep yourselves civil guys, you've already done a great job so far, keep it up.  
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