doing household crap does nothing for independence. theres no time for that kinda stuff when you have to work a job and pay rent. society doesn't care if you live in a pig pin so long as you show up to work wearing clean looking pants.
and you cant operate the jøtul? my sister has one of those, its not that hard to use at all. put a small strip of cardboard, the kindling, and some cold coals between two peices of wood, light up the cardboard, stick a peice on top, close the door and open the ash tray panel. once its going cram the thing full of wood and shut it down. if you are using well seasoned wood and not the crappy wet stuff my sister uses, it might be easier than that.