[deathfun]

Your other mistake is the fact you were drunk and posting about a girl you like but may never see again for a while

If the two are related, that's mistake number three.

[karajorma]

I think it's just bad faith to point fingers at apple for this. It's a hard problem to figure out how precisely one should harmonize convenience with safety.

I don't. While the article you posted makes a fair point, take a long look at 1, 2 and 5.

If your software has a known vulnerability and you don't make the slightest attempt to fix it for 4 months, you really can't complain if people start taking potshots at your reputation for security. 

[Luis Dias]

That's a lot of reasonable points there. I stand corrected.

[Klaustrophobia]

Tonight has been a good ( if bitter-sweet) night.
Earlier today I got a call from a job I interviewed for, asking when I could start so that they could sort a starting date.
Then I went to a variety show where my best friend was singing.

Here's where the bitter-sweet comes in. A girl I really like was there, and I've been getting to knowledge her a little over the summer. Due to a few things we've only been able to meet up a few times over the summer, an being the coward I am, never directly told her that I liked her.
Tonight I found out that she's going to Bradford for Uni tomorrow.

Again, I let her go without saying that I like her, but how happy I am that she got into uni.

I should have been born with whiskers and a tail, because I'm  ****ing Pussy

if it makes you feel any better, i did that for 8 years.

[FireSpawn]

Your other mistake is the fact you were drunk and posting about a girl you like but may never see again for a while

If the two are related, that's mistake number three.

Well we were drinking together eith some friends as a little "farewell" thing. The drunkenness hit me after we all left and went our own ways.

[haloboy100]

So my previous situation is resolving in many ways, both expected and very unexpected.

The husband learned everything and his initial reaction was typical - but, after a week or so of talking and simple waiting, he's actually...understanding?

In summary, the divorce is happening, and there's essentially no ill feelings manifesting. He's already flirting with other girls, my girl and him are still close friends, he's volunteering to take over all of the debt they shared if she keeps her car payments and the cats. He blames himself for everything, but they both agree that their marriage wasn't as special as what her and I seem to have (the most surprising thing for all of us that he understands), and that they were never meant to marry in the first place.

From my perspective, it seems like that marriage was the reason people say to never marry your best friend. It was functional and everything, but it wasn't really - I don't know what to call it. There wasn't a spark?

Anyway, that's my interpretation of what happened. The bottom line is that he is accepting of it and the marriage is not the major issue. The major issue now is the border, and I simply have no idea how we're going to deal with that. Neither of us are skilled workers (unless her cosmetology schooling counts, the certificate of which she will have to renew, a process taking months), and are definitely not financially well off. I don't think they will let her cross even if we marry, because we are both starting off with a couple of thousand dollars.

The truth is, I don't care how crazy everything is. Everything that's happened since I've met her is a straight improvement over my entire life before hand. I'm not giving up on this until it kills me, which both of us have accepted is a very real, practical possibility, if some imaginary line is keeping us from living happily ever after.

Going to call the immigration office today and hope for some answers. Doubtful but hopeful.

I feel like we're applying for a ****ing space program or something. I just to get across the damn imaginary line.

[Luis Dias]

good luck!

[deathfun]

And with that all I feel I need to say is best of luck, and go for it
When you pull it off, it'll give people in similar unlucky situations a little bit of that important hope that things do work out

[haloboy100]

Also thinking about getting her or I a job online so we don't have to worry about work visas - but perhaps that is naive of me since I don't even know what kind of job that would be or how it would work.

But thanks a lot for hte support. Any advice would be really, really helpful.

[Nuke]

So my previous situation is resolving in many ways, both expected and very unexpected.

The husband learned everything and his initial reaction was typical - but, after a week or so of talking and simple waiting, he's actually...understanding?

In summary, the divorce is happening, and there's essentially no ill feelings manifesting. He's already flirting with other girls, my girl and him are still close friends, he's volunteering to take over all of the debt they shared if she keeps her car payments and the cats. He blames himself for everything, but they both agree that their marriage wasn't as special as what her and I seem to have (the most surprising thing for all of us that he understands), and that they were never meant to marry in the first place.

From my perspective, it seems like that marriage was the reason people say to never marry your best friend. It was functional and everything, but it wasn't really - I don't know what to call it. There wasn't a spark?

Anyway, that's my interpretation of what happened. The bottom line is that he is accepting of it and the marriage is not the major issue. The major issue now is the border, and I simply have no idea how we're going to deal with that. Neither of us are skilled workers (unless her cosmetology schooling counts, the certificate of which she will have to renew, a process taking months), and are definitely not financially well off. I don't think they will let her cross even if we marry, because we are both starting off with a couple of thousand dollars.

The truth is, I don't care how crazy everything is. Everything that's happened since I've met her is a straight improvement over my entire life before hand. I'm not giving up on this until it kills me, which both of us have accepted is a very real, practical possibility, if some imaginary line is keeping us from living happily ever after.

Going to call the immigration office today and hope for some answers. Doubtful but hopeful.

I feel like we're applying for a ****ing space program or something. I just to get across the damn imaginary line.

id tell her to keep the cats or the deals off.

[haloboy100]

Nah dude. Cats are awesome.

[deathfun]

Hey guys
...it's a flagship

[Nuke]

Nah dude. Cats are awesome.

some how there is an inverter lodged in your logic circuits. or mine. kitties <3.

[AtomicClucker]

Currently been watching the Gamergate fiasco: long story short, the Gaming community, journalism, and developers are collective idiots.

Current plans, getting  back into Command and Conquer 3.

4 was a sack of ****.

[An4ximandros]

How to properly solve that Shivatonnic load-o-beam:

Devs should be isolate from "The gaming press".

The "gaming press" and their disgusting "gamer culture" is annihilated at the atomic level.

All branches of journalism should have a universal standard for quality. Not attempting to excel makes us less than human.

[deathfun]

I will never tire of loading a .50 BMG round into my rifle and watching it fly through anything

Saw what it would do to a cast iron frying pan today. Man it's some pretty awesome **** to see
Next I want to buy an entire pig and watch it fly

[Colonol Dekker]

Get a phantom camera and your youtube subscriptions will go up.

[deathfun]

I'm sort of broke currently
Well, not entirely, but that other money stuff is for school
From left to right: Archangel Mosin-Nagant 91/30 (Elise), Mossberg Silver Reserve (Bear Medicine), SVT-40 (Olga), CS-50 (Precious), MN9130 PU Variant (Lady Friend), M44 Carbine (Stubbs), MN9130 [1932] (Gorgeous)

[Flipside]

[Bruce Campbell]That's a big gun....[/Bruce Campbell]

[haloboy100]

It's snowing in Calgary right now. Hard.

Remember it's still technically summer.