I get the "pants in the relationship" bit. I don't get how that relates to Turambar not buying me stuff.
It probably has a lot more to do with him not being especially wealthy than my lack of femininity.
But...
I wish I had an iPod. Though my camcorder for some bizarre reason is also an MP3 player. -.-;
I have a ton of Nine Inch Nails and Marilyn Manson, thanks to my exboyfriend and a retarded amount of AFI and weird Finnish/German stuff from my exgirlfriend. Oh, and loads of piano music and showtunes from my gramma. Turambar gives me BSG and Naruto and other nerd things in video form, but those don't get stored in iTunes.