Is this wrong? I'm 24 and the girl i like is 36.
My sage-sense was activateds and i come bearing knowledge...
(No i didn't even bother reading subsequent posts)There's nought wrong with the age gap. Go for broke, take a chance . . . . my biggest age gap upwards was nine years. She was 23, i was tall for my age and lied, i said i was 23, she was a butlins redcoat but, and i say this consantly... With women; Confidence and bull**** can part even the rustiest and stubbonest of legs.
Do a little field recon first, there's always a window of oppertunity to play the "build trust>abuse trust" card. Be warned though for every woman the rate at which tust builds into the impenetrable FRIENDSHIP barrier is different. So once you start a passing conversation/regular greeting. (ie hi hows <insert past subject matter>)it's down to you to guage how quickly her familiarity with you is building. Ideally try and get infop on a regular function (if her and her mates go out for a few after work/college/whatever) this can be achieved by simple chit-chat. get there first with a paper pretending to "unwind" situate yourself by the door and keep a casual eye out. When your ladyt friend comes in. Raise a hello and see if you're asked to join.
This is where you can take the reigns and try different distances of social coimfort. As the night wears on, try the old casual hand on shoulder every time she laughs and laugh along. (ONLY IF RELEVANT, DON'T LOOK CRAZY / LIKE A PSYCHO!!)
From here on in you should be good to go.
Sorry for the impromptu ramble but i like this subject

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