Author Topic: Sexual addiction/lack of commitment/ lone wolf syndrome (Read 42356 times)

Stormkeeper · **Reply #120 on:** October 25, 2009, 11:16:31 pm

I have fired the second salvo in the war to win her heart.

redsniper · **Reply #121 on:** October 25, 2009, 11:26:16 pm

Here's wishing you a critical hit!

Liberator · **Reply #122 on:** October 26, 2009, 01:33:48 am

and an extra attack proc

McCall · **Reply #123 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:23:58 pm

Quote from: Liberator on October 20, 2009, 10:43:24 pm

A week? I haven't vacuumed in at least...a year?

GUYS! Don't want to sound like a total mom/mum here, but a dirty room does not a love nest make. Girls can be pretty funny about that kind of thing.

Actually, being quite serious, a dirty room/home will not help at all. Neither does excessive untidiness. If you get a girl back to your place, it really screws things up if she doesn't know where the heck to sit. Had a friend make that mistake in a BIG way early this year. We'd set him up with a pretty cute girl, but she got totally turned off by the state of his pad. Just a couple hours cleaning up before she arrived and he might well have been getting head instead of the brush-off.

Colonol Dekker · **Reply #124 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:32:01 pm

I just assumed basic hygiene wen't without saying.....

Remember the sims refernece earlier, well there's a ROOM bar there too

StarSlayer · **Reply #125 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:37:23 pm

Quote from: Colonol Dekker on October 28, 2009, 05:32:01 pm

I just assumed basic hygiene wen't without saying.....

Remember the sims refernece earlier, well there's a ROOM bar there too

You know, really should change the topic to Dekker's Relationship Seminar.

McCall · **Reply #126 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:38:53 pm

It's always the basics folks screw up. Always the basics. I'm sure there's guys out there with all the PUA manuals etched in their brains but they keep forgetting to brush their teeth and trim their pubes.

Colonol Dekker · **Reply #127 on:** October 28, 2009, 05:59:05 pm

TMFI

Stormkeeper · **Reply #128 on:** October 28, 2009, 07:11:20 pm

The second salvo seems to have done good damage. I'm now planning a third assault.

General Battuta · **Reply #129 on:** October 28, 2009, 07:15:10 pm

Don't get too obvious about it.

Stormkeeper · **Reply #130 on:** October 28, 2009, 07:17:58 pm

Of course. I'm damn good at making stealth assaults.

Locutus of Borg · **Reply #131 on:** October 28, 2009, 10:54:52 pm

There's a weakpoint about 1/4 of the way down the hull, aim for the middle

teh <3

IceFire · **Reply #132 on:** October 30, 2009, 07:27:37 pm

The real trick seems to be what to do once into a relationship. What do you do when she's happy? (obvious?) What do you do when she's upset about something? How much do you try to be with her without being overwhelming? No easy answers obviously. Its once you get to that point in the relationship just like Dekker was talking about at the beginning.... then the lack of commitment/lone wolf concerns creep in...

Colonol Dekker · **Reply #133 on:** October 31, 2009, 07:00:06 am

Finding a good equilibrium early on is pretty key. If you have to make too much effort early on (conversationally) chances are that'll set the tempo and you'll have to maintain it. That's why you should once the ice is broken default to your normal interests and behaviours once in a while so you can guage whether it'll last. Obviously as stated already compromise is a given, but surrender? Ononono. We're all pretty young just enjoy the variety for a bit.

Also you young'uns constant fornication alone does not a relationship make. It's just a really GOOD arrangement.

eke it out and use the oppertunity to improve if it presents itself.

McCall · **Reply #134 on:** October 31, 2009, 11:10:47 am

Quote from: IceFire on October 30, 2009, 07:27:37 pm

The real trick seems to be what to do once into a relationship. What do you do when she's happy? (obvious?) What do you do when she's upset about something? How much do you try to be with her without being overwhelming? No easy answers obviously. Its once you get to that point in the relationship just like Dekker was talking about at the beginning.... then the lack of commitment/lone wolf concerns creep in...

So... do you suffer from the congential Wandering Eye Syndrome too? Cool! We should set up a club on here.

IceFire · **Reply #135 on:** October 31, 2009, 02:25:52 pm

Quote from: McCall on October 31, 2009, 11:10:47 am

Quote from: IceFire on October 30, 2009, 07:27:37 pm
The real trick seems to be what to do once into a relationship. What do you do when she's happy? (obvious?) What do you do when she's upset about something? How much do you try to be with her without being overwhelming? No easy answers obviously. Its once you get to that point in the relationship just like Dekker was talking about at the beginning.... then the lack of commitment/lone wolf concerns creep in...

So... do you suffer from the congential Wandering Eye Syndrome too? Cool! We should set up a club on here.

No its not that I'm looking elsewhere... its more of a "I'm here... now what do I do" sort of feeling. Makes one occasionally want to run back to cover (I'm sure that is one of those drivers for the lone wolf kind of person). I'm staying the course right now because its a really good course. Its just challenging for me right now.

McCall · **Reply #136 on:** November 01, 2009, 05:14:49 am

I see what you mean. We on occasion put a lot of effort into getting there only to realise that - apart from the obvious

- we're not sure what to do on arrival.

IceFire · **Reply #137 on:** November 01, 2009, 09:30:26 am

Quote from: McCall on November 01, 2009, 05:14:49 am

I see what you mean. We on occasion put a lot of effort into getting there only to realise that - apart from the obvious - we're not sure what to do on arrival.

Yep... but its one of those learning processes

iamzack · **Reply #138 on:** November 01, 2009, 11:28:30 am

O.o

Things are so much less complicated when you only date friends.

Colonol Dekker · **Reply #139 on:** November 01, 2009, 01:18:50 pm

But much less rewarding in life skill points.

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