Well, the problem with moderators/admins acting as a unified team is that they would need centralized
leadership that they agree to respect, or they would need some sort of
democracy. In either case, anything that they disagree or feel strongly enough about could be reason for them to 'secede' and go their own way. This isn't particularly healthy, as everyone probably has their own favorite 'buddies' or people that they mostly agree with, and if that person quits being a mod or admin because of their feelings, then the people that admire them are also likely to be offended.
Currently, it seems that we have a benevolent (or not benevolent, if that is your view.. my view is it's meant to be benevolent) dictatorship, under which are various ... under-dictators, ruling over other, lesser, dictators, who together assist in the rule of their nation-states on behalf of the dictatorship, some of whom have authority that stretches into other nation-states, or who share rule over some of the same nation-states (speaking of the forums as different 'nation states' governed by admins / mods here...)
This system is most likely the best system we can actually get, considering the makeup of HLP, and the fact that it's not like the community 'owns' any part of it; it's a cafe owned by someone else, who lets you come and hang out with your buddies, for free, and of course has the right to enforce order in said cafe as they see fit. However, the cafe is too big for one person, so they delegate to those members of the cafe as they see fit... there
really is no other way that I think HLP could be sensibly run, given the varying viewpoints we have here. I've personally experienced what appeared to be personal targetting of myself and my posts, and, after having talked with an admin, taken several chill pills, and a few days to cool off, was able to see how my posts may have possibly been seen by the moderator in question.... it was rather eye-opening. I didn't mean to cause any offense, however, upon receiving what I thought was a hostile response by a mod (splitlock with thread re-named), I of course became very upset. However, looking at it from the moderator's point of view, I can see how my post could be taken as ... potentially harmful to the HLP community, as I hadn't been careful enough with my description of the software I was advocating people try.
Do I think the moderator overreacted? Yes.
However, I perfectly understand how he came to his decision now, and have come to terms with that, as an unescapable byproduct of people having sole responsibility to police a public forum
for free, in their own free time, such as it is.
I also believe that perhaps I may have overreacted to what I considered to be personal belittling directed at myself.. which did not end up to be the case. Certain people just have different styles, which can clash with others' personal styles of communication. Both sides do not mean offense, or only mean to come across as slightly annoyed, the other side, which does not understand, takes this as a direct insult, and the situation escalates. Both sides are most likely both at fault, but hey, welcome to planet Earth.

I'd say, to get along better: if you feel like grabbing your plasma rifle, don't. Post your objection in an abbreviated form, stating that you will respond more fully in the next day or so, after you've had time to think with a clear head on the matter. Patience is the community's ally, at this point.. as well as a bit of self-control and willingness to put aside your own (at least apparently) offended pride for the sake of civility. Be the bigger person, and, unless you can post with a detached aloofness to any perceived personal insult, avoid posting until you can be perceived as reasonable by any standard.
Take all of the above ramblings with a grain of salt; I'm not trying to come across as some know-it-all or more-perfect-than-you asshole, just sharing some musings.

Also note that (at least in my case) sometimes it's necessary to just take a break from it all and check back in a few months after everything's died down and it's all water well under the bridge.