Ok obviously my view on this stuff is less informed than yours, but at the same time I also think its a bit more objective.
In my mind, killing people via suicide bomb or shooting them with a rifle or tank is the same thing. And yes, I am refering to the IDF killing civilians. I fully understand what Isreal is doing, though I dont support it. After WW2, with 6 million Jews dead, I'de take any steps necessary to protect my land too. However, I think that pushing around the Palestinians isn't helping anything. You claim that the Palestinians are the terrorists. Well terrorist is what big armies call little armies. If they had uniforms and guns, you'de call them an army. It just using what you've got to further your own side if the struggle. And I'm also pretty sure that however many Isrealis die in suicide bombings, more Palestinians are killed in the inevitable revenge.
The thing that got me about the Isreali-Palestian conflict when I looked at a map, is just how small the contested area is. I understand fighting over large pieces of land, but the difference between the current borders and the contested borders is like 20km
Anyways, thats my opinion, though ofcourse I know its harder to looks at it objectively when you're in the middle of it.