[Thorn]

And that, right there, is the perfect example of why high school relationships are a waste of time. Nine times out of ten, this will happen.
Don't even bother until you graduate, because it usually takes people that long to smarten up. Some people just don't, but most do. Eventually.

[redmenace]

Originally posted by Kamikaze
Some girls are just evil.

[NGTM-1R]

I'd say something sympathetic, but my personal experience is that words don't really help.

Do you have ANY clue why she dumped you? 'Cuz this sounds and awful lot like something that happened to me once. Utterly out of the blue, girlfriend stopped talking to me. Completely, hasn't said anything to me since, directly or indirectly. I never found out why. I'm friends with her bro and family, they never found out why either.
It bugs the heck out of me. I know I had to have screwed up somehow, but...

[Grey Wolf]

That hermit comment suddenly brings back memories of a Monty Python sketch. Here's a link to it: http://www.montypythonpages.com/sketches/hermit.htm

[Corsair]

Originally posted by ngtm1r
I'd say something sympathetic, but my personal experience is that words don't really help.

Do you have ANY clue why she dumped you? 'Cuz this sounds and awful lot like something that happened to me once. Utterly out of the blue, girlfriend stopped talking to me. Completely, hasn't said anything to me since, directly or indirectly. I never found out why. I'm friends with her bro and family, they never found out why either.
It bugs the heck out of me. I know I had to have screwed up somehow, but...

She found someone who was better in bed.

Girls can just be messed up man... sometimes you can't tell what they're thinking and you just have to let them go.

[Cabbie]

Man, sorry to hear that. Remember if she's like that she might just suddenly do to that guy what she did to you so you're better off with another girl.

[an0n]

Originally posted by Raa
I've attracted just as many men as women... wonder where that puts me...

That puts you squarely in the 'free drinks' catergory.

A pal of mine spent a whole night letting this gay guy buy him drinks. He got totally mashed then just disappeared while the gay's back was turned.

[01010]

Originally posted by jdjtcagle
So you might remember that I was going with the hot german exchange student that goes back in January.  Well today she dumped me (for only God knows why) and is now "with" a guy I've known all my life...
Yes, it was that person that no guy likes and is friends with all the chicks.  The guy that I once called a queer is now proving his straightness on my "ex"
What a day...

How was your day?

See this is lifes way of telling you that you suck. I suggest you do something about your suckiness before this happens again, you should be grateful for the warning shot.

[Vaelinx]

Sorry man, that's always a bummer.
All I can say is this:  Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another...

Not to mean that all women are the same.  But that what you like about women is a fundamental quality you can find in another.  When one turns out to have the qualities of this girl...  you're bettter off trading in for another model...

Tommorrow is a new day!

[Black Wolf]

Advice: never call a man gay...

Especially not around Kazan.

[Kazan]

all i have to say is: PWND

[BlackDove]

Aye.

I wonder what you did to **** it up, that you're not telling us

[ionia23]

Remember one key bit of advice, jdjtcagle.  Girls are NO substitute for FS

Not making light of the situation, I'm sorry it went down like that.

[aldo_14]

hehe.

'went down'

(God, I need sleep..........)

[Clave]

It happens all the time - 'Best Friends' can so often turn out to be 'Wife-Stealing Slime' Not that it happened to me after 4 years of marriage, of course not.  I mean you would have to be really stupid to invite a trusted friend round to your house when you have an attractive wife, wouldn't you?....

[jdjtcagle]

Well, yes Kazan is right... I was PWNED

but I guess there could be many reasons why she would be pissed or just lose interest...
The guy is way better looking, BTW

She has not been answering everytime I call, or she blows me off when I try to talk to her.  Whatever I did, she is mad

I shouldn't of even got involved, come to think of it... How rational is it to date someone who is going back home in January?

I'm doing better today than yesterday, all I can say is "forget her" I try not to care anymore...

, I'm giving up on all High School relations, there not worth it

Oh well, that's life

[Thorn]

Originally posted by jdjtcagle
, I'm giving up on all High School relations, there not worth it

Good call.

On a slightly related topic, never piss off the small, quiet girls. They're worse than the loud ones.

Comments like "SHE IS THE DESTROYER OF WORLDS!!" while she's trying to tear your throat out does not seem to help matters at all.
Still, it was pretty funny at the time.

Now if you'll excuse me, I need to find some disinfectant.

[vyper]

ah, quiet girls are the noisiest in private... trust me

[mitac]

Originally posted by vyper
ah, quiet girls are the noisiest in private... trust me

And you sure as hell don't mean that they tend to snore.

[.::Tin Can::.]

High School relationships arent always a waste of time if both of you have the DRIVE to make it work. If you can both respect each other and not get moody over the stupid things (Like you are supposed to act THIS way around ME, and if you DONT I'll like, TOTALY dump you) then you can make it happen. Amber made it happen, a good friend of mine who dated the same guy through her Sophmore year until she graduated High School (I think she's still dating him...)

However, most of the students date the others because of their looks, charm, flair, popularity, or because they feel like they NEED someone to date NOW otherwise they arent complete. This, as thorn said, IS 90% of the case and as such destroys the relationship from the inside out. Afterwards you just kind of hate each other and then you get used to each other via friends.

Luckily some (I should italicize some... oh, done) have the capability to make it work via maturity and devotion AND responsibility[/B]. Trust me, stupid stuff happens in high school. (However, I've seen stupider things happen with married couples who are just young and stupid as well)

Sorry to hear about you and the German chick though. We have a handful of exchange students as well, and I am "good friends" with the German girl, the Czech girl, the Vietmanese girl, and the Serbian girl. Moreover the Czech women as opposed to the others.

Meditate on your loss and it will vanish, eventually.