Um, the example of so called soft shadows in space earlier in the thread is a result of light passing through the ATMOSPHERE of a planet eclipsing its own satellite. The typical example of this is of course the Terra eclipsing Luna. However, when the Luna eclipses Sol, there is no softening around the edges. The closest we get to that is the so-called "Diamond Ring" effect, where the last part of the main body of the sun to go into eclipse seems extra bright against the limb of the moon. The same effect is observed in reverse as the sun comes out of eclipse.
QED, without some sort of atmosphere, shadows in space have hard edges.