A crossfire is not how the majority of civilians are killed.
Here's an example that I remember off the top of my head. Sometime last year, I read an article that told how a kid (I think he was 10) was taking a car part from a mechanic's shop back to his home in order for his dad to do some repairs on their car. The part was roughly the size of a grenade. He got spotted and shot.
Another story I remember, was two kids (sorry I keep bringing up kids, but these are the ones I remember) were camping out of the roof of their house one night. They got spotted, mistaken for snipers and shot. Then the soldiers proceeded to fire RPGs in to the house, thinking there were more insurgents in it, and promptly killed the boy's family.
I would guess that mistaken identity is a huge killer of civilians. And its not ALL soldiers, I've heard many instances where British soldiers were on the scene with Americans and restrained them from firing so that the identity of the person could be confirmed. And it always turns out to be an innocent. Trigger happy I guess.
The question I was asking was, would you rather that American (or UK if you'de like) soldiers play it safe and shoot on sight, or that they maybe expose themselves to danger in order to potentially save innocent lives. This is the third time Ive asked, answer the question.
Civilians can't stay in their homes 24/7 for years on end. They have to live their lives, and in living their lives they expose themselves to danger of being mistaken for insurgents and killed.
The fact that it is an accident does not excuse it.These are not supposed to be trigger happy yokels with guns, they're supposed to be trained and disciplend soldiers. Such a high level of error should not be tolerated, especially when the cost is so high.