[Ford Prefect]

That's entirely possible. Bored, drugged-up suburban kids may not be an accurate cross-section.

[Grey Wolf]

The bored and drugged-up part most likely skewed your results.

[Taristin]

The bored and drugged-up part most likely skewed your results.

Eh? That's how 90% of the population is. Atleast in the 4 schools I've been to in the past 6 years...

[Grey Wolf]

Bored, yes. Drugged-up, no.

[Taristin]

Bored, yes. Drugged-up, no.

perhaps where you are...

[BlackDove]

Drugged-up, yes, all the time.

[Ulala]

"Drunk" is the correct term where I was at and am at now. I guess that can fall into the same category as "drugged" though...

[Nuclear1]

This thread really is getting pointless.

All I see so far is Charismatic asking for advice on how to carry on a relationship that is clearly one-way at the level expected, and then turning around and deciding not to take advice (good advice mostly) when it doesn't help him get forward with a 15 year old.

Charismatic, if the girl doesn't want a relationship now, don't force it on her. You're 18--she's 15. You're much more mature than she is emotionally; that's what I gather with you wanting to take the relationship seriously. Trust me, unless she has the same feelings for you, it won't happen. Seriously, just stick with having a good friend. Good friends can last a long time; relationships with major maturity gaps don't. I've got about three or four good friends who are girls two or three years younger than me (I be 17), and I've left it at that. Two of them are practically sisters in terms of how close we are, and we've never taken it to the point of serious relationship.

On a more sympathetic side, I understand your position. You really care for the girl, but she doesn't see it the same way back. She just wants to be friends, but you want more than that. So take some advice from someone who's gone through this--just be friends. You can't stop her from dating other guys or messing up, but be there for her if she does. I've got a list almost two Word pages length of assholes that I need to "reason" with over how they've treated some of my friends.

Be her friend, or even better, an older brother to her. You're the mature one with experience--help her through high school.

[an0n]

I gotta say, you guys blow.

Letting morality get in the way of advising the man on how to get into a girl's pants. ****en sickening.

Whatever loyalty you have should lay with Char, as he's the one you know. And you should respect that he's going to do what he deems right. Instead of trying to convince him on a course of action (or inaction), you should be suggesting the best course of action in getting the girl (while minimizing any damage from a rejection) and then voicing your opinions on his situation.

But, hey, what do I know....

[Descenterace]

   Oh my gods, the thread is back.  There I was, happily thinking that it had mercifully been sucked into the infinite write-only backup device known as /dev/null, and it goes and gets reincarnated.

[aldo_14]

The best advice you can ever have - look at what anon says, and do the exact opposite.  You can't go wrong*.



*excluding the old reverse psychology, of course.

[Turambar]

Anubis?

[karajorma]

Letting morality get in the way of advising the man on how to get into a girl's pants. ****en sickening.

Whatever loyalty you have should lay with Char

Have you not considered the fact that cause we know Char we have already deemed the chance of him breeding to be too big a risk to take?

[an0n]

Yes. But I need a sub-race of mindless drones for Project Firebird.

[Krackers87]

...

um... ooookay...

Precisely

[karajorma]

Yes. But I need a sub-race of mindless drones for Project Firebird.

Have you not considered that we might not want you to have a sub-race of mindless drones?

[Charismatic]

If that's really so then don't do anything or try to force her into anything she's not comfortable with. Otherwise you're going to have to run the risk of losing what you have.

Good point. Heh you guys are starting to sway my resolve.

Why? Is this little pre-pubescant girl the love of your life, soulmate, person you are destined to spend the rest of your life with until you die at the ripe old age of 42 and she remarries?

Well i dont think, IMHO, we would ever make it to marry, even if she and i were older and became bf\gf. Her past would be very hard to get over.

Charismatic, if the girl doesn't want a relationship now, don't force it on her. You're 18--she's 15. You're much more mature than she is emotionally; that's what I gather with you wanting to take the relationship seriously. Trust me, unless she has the same feelings for you, it won't happen. Seriously, just stick with having a good friend. Good friends can last a long time; relationships with major maturity gaps don't. I've got about three or four good friends who are girls two or three years younger than me (I be 17), and I've left it at that. Two of them are practically sisters in terms of how close we are, and we've never taken it to the point of serious relationship.

On a more sympathetic side, I understand your position. You really care for the girl, but she doesn't see it the same way back. She just wants to be friends, but you want more than that. So take some advice from someone who's gone through this--just be friends. You can't stop her from dating other guys or messing up, but be there for her if she does. I've got a list almost two Word pages length of assholes that I need to "reason" with over how they've treated some of my friends.

Be her friend, or even better, an older brother to her. You're the mature one with experience--help her through high school.

Yeah i guess friends would be a good thing to have at the least. Dam hormonez.

I gotta say, you guys blow.

Letting morality get in the way of advising the man on how to get into a girl's pants. ****en sickening.

Whatever loyalty you have should lay with Char, as he's the one you know. And you should respect that he's going to do what he deems right. Instead of trying to convince him on a course of action (or inaction), you should be suggesting the best course of action in getting the girl (while minimizing any damage from a rejection) and then voicing your opinions on his situation.

But, hey, what do I know....

I am starting to gain a respect for An0n. Funy as hell, his odd comments and opinions are interesting to say the least. Its good to have someone who dont see the same way everyone else dose. Im like that myself. And i agree. Lend your loyalty to me!

Have you not considered the fact that cause we know Char we have already deemed the chance of him breeding to be too big a risk to take?

Hey!

[Dough with Fish]

Just a quick question for an0n and then you all can get back to this thing.

An0n, do you ever have the 'little angel and devil' on the shoulders thing telling you what to do, or did the angel just decide to say '**** it' and go get drunk, because thats what it sounds like. Not that there is anything wrong with that, just a bit curious.

[Ace]

Well i dont think, IMHO, we would ever make it to marry, even if she and i were older and became bf\gf. Her past would be very hard to get over.

So what's so big dark and evil about her past?

[Dough with Fish]

Well i dont think, IMHO, we would ever make it to marry, even if she and i were older and became bf\gf. Her past would be very hard to get over.

So what's so big dark and evil about her past?

More imporntantly what kind of past can a 15[/i] year old have?