Look a war can be won like the one between the GTVA and the NTF if you are willing to take the risks and are willing to make the sacrifices in order to obtain your victory. Mi belief is that no matter what the cost the GTVA should of shown an iron fist and masacre the NTF this way making them an example to future extremist groups.
Regardless of the cost in human lives on their own side?
Well, I guess populations have always been tolerant of the government pissing away thousands upon thousands of lives with suicidal military tactics.... oh. Put it this way, I'm glad I'd never serve in an army under you; I'm not sure the resultant mutiny would be all that much fun.
Look it is obvious the NTF did not have acces to advanced tech like the GTVA or the resources the GTVA had. Why i believe this is simply because of the overwhealming number of lokis and hers mk I and basicly outdated ships that they had at least in terms of fighters.
They don't need the same access, only sufficient access to a) focus on building the Iceni and b) create forces to defend a smaller area against the GTVA for long enough to force a stalemate.
Although I'd note they did have the Deimos, which isn't exactly outdated.
Also the GTVA was fighting wich just half of its entire war machine .
Why? simply because of one of the reasons you pointed out aldo and that is that this was a terran rebelion and the terran fleet had to be the bulk of the war fleet engaged in the war. Otherwise I see no plausable reason for the NTF managing to bring the GTVA to a stalemate.
This thread has already listed a number of common sense reasons for a stalemate, namely that the NTF was in an easily defensible position with perfect chokepoints (nodes) - at least, in terms of the captured systems.
You're also making some remarkable - and unjustifiable - assumptions; that the Terran fleet (GTA shorthand) was half the GTVA fleet even after the defection of at least one fleet to the NTF (if not more; such as IIRC the Trinity), that the GTA didn't keep
any ships in defensive positions in the other Terran or GTVA systems, and that the GVA did not step in when the NTF was invading
Vasudan systems and committing war crimes upon Vasudan civillians.
Also I still believe that Bosch's frigate was already beeing built or was already built at the time Bosch captured the polaris shipyards. I do believe that if the case was the other way around they would of said that bosch captured the shipyards and used them to construct the frigate. Not that the ship was captured from the polaris shipyards. (At least if I remember corectly )
It doesn't say that the Iceni was captured with the shipyards. It mentions that the shipyards were captured, and that the Iceni was built there.
As for Stalin and his ww2 tactics.....they may have been crude bloody and on the brink of insanity but they worked did they not?? Just goes to show that if the GTVA would of been willing to accept the cost then they could of won without the help of the Collie. It is much better that they had the collie to avoid the bloodsheed but this war could of been won in both ways.
Russia lost about 10 million, compared to 3.5m for the Germans. Arguably they were only saved thanks to a combination of the Germans picking a 2 front war, the harsh winter, and with the aid of US lend-lease. And the only reason they were able to fight in such a downright suicidal manner is because they were ruled by a despotic tyrant who ordered his Commissars to kill anyone who dared retreat. Now, if you assume the GTVA is a tyrannical dictatorship who care nothing for the deaths of their (necessarily conscripted, as who would volunteer?) pilots, then yes - they could fight like that. Except, of course, that many ships would probably defect to the NTF.
(yes, you can piss about with hypotheticals, too; the NTF could perhaps have beaten the GTVA and forced them to give the Polaris, et al, bloc independence if Bosch hadn't been using it as a cover to raid Vasudan systems)