DISCLAIMERThis is aimed at no-one in particularThere's no right or wrong time. When it happens it'll happen, there
IS somebody for EVERYONE as far as first times are concerned. It's only an issue or something to worry about if
YOU believe it is. I mean, there's no giant holo-sign following everyone who's never seen a panda in real life declaring the fact right, strangers won't sense the fact?
So why would it matter to others if you've had the good sense to wait til it's the right time for you.
If you do feel the urge to splurge though, i suggest just increasing your social outgoings, even if it's just going to your local bar/taverna/pub/squash court/games worksop/library/animal resue/place of natural comfort/.
If you're a bookish sort, you won't find a female counterpart in the sort of places i find myself at 4am on a saturday morning, unless you don't want a bookish sort.
What i'm saying is, get out there, spruce yourself up, and as mentioned in one of these pre-merge WHIYLS, just practice smiling at strangers and interacting with women you don't know (not FULL ON) just a casual smile and a "good morning/morning/afternoon/after you/let me get that door for you/please no, you go first (while queueing for a bus or somesuch)etc"... A little acknowledgement works leaps and bounds i swear.

Failing that, if you want a quick ego-boost/fix do part-time late shift bar-work for a few months. You'll never get more female attention.
