[peterv]

O.K. here's the story: I'm in a bar with my ex girlfriend and a guy she knows from school walks in. She starts talking with him and ignoring me. For hours. I meet some guys in the bar and i leave with them without telling her a word.
After that, i stopped answering her phonecalls.
But I'm not so very mad anymore, so my question is this:
How do i break up with her politely?

Thanks in advance.

[Snail]

Just text her "sry it didnt work out lets split up"


(P.S. not a lady)

[Mefustae]

Wait, so it's your ex-girlfriend? Or your current girlfriend who ignored you?

If she's actually your girlfriend, stop being a ***** and just call her on her ****. Although, from the sounds of it, she was probably doing it because you ****ed up. You have to think, peterv: What have you done, and much ass do you need to kiss to get the budget back in black.

That said, if she's your ex-girlfriend, then congratulations! You're a stalker! And a narcissist! Yay!

[Scotty]

Breaking up with an ex-girlfriend?  Congrats, that takes some doing.

OTOH, are you seriously going to break up with her because she talked to another guy that she knew?  And then you stopped answering phone calls.  I may have not had a girlfriend before, but that seems.... extreme.

[BlackDove]

If she ignored you at the bar with her friends like that, odds are she doesn't give a crap about you either way and is ****ing other guys.

I'm sure she won't be all that heartbroken if you tell her goodbye.

(P.S. not a lady... yet)

[Nuke]

call her a whore and destroy her car

[Flipside]

Why are you asking in here? There's only really IamZack, and I'm not sure she'd say what you want to hear.

Just talk to her, tell her you felt ignored and more than a bit humiliated by her completely blanking you for her ex, you never know, she might listen and understand your feelings, and, if she doesn't, then at least you can both break up knowing why.

She might call you possessive, but it's not so much a matter of owning her as her not respecting your partnership in a way that makes you comfortable. That's not a fault on her part, or yours, just an incompatibility, it can be worked around if you are determined, or you can quit while you are ahead.

[karajorma]

Rather strangely, I agree with Blackdove on this one. If she cared about you she would have included you in the conversation.

[Flipside]

Will admit, not arguing with the decision, or why you made it, just saying, clear the air with her straight away, there's no real trick to ending a relationship other than being honest.

[BlackDove]

Sure there is.

You can always be a man and just stop calling.

[captain-custard]

sleep with her sister , mother or brother , which ever one  is cutest, this will usualy finish a relationship

[FUBAR-BDHR]

* FUBAR-BDHR can't believe advice has been asked for and the inevitable answer has yet to be given. 

Starting poll on how long it takes........ 

[General Battuta]

stick it in her pooper

 

I assume that's what you were going for?

[FUBAR-BDHR]

Yep that's the one.  It would probably end the relationship real quick too.

[BlackDove]

I think she'd actually like that.

I mean.

It's probably what all the other guys have been doing with her.

(I'm so sorry)

[iamzack]

I'm going to assume that your post paints a complete picture of the relationship's problems.

Lady's opinion:

You're being a needy *****. As a needy *****, I do believe I know one when I see one.

If you like her, quit being a passive aggressive douche bag over one goddamn incident, and do that communication thing. I know that's a bit out of fashion these days, but it's what you do in a relationship.

If you don't like her, and you were just looking for an excuse to break up with her without being in the wrong, tough luck. Also, wait until you mature a bit before dating another girl.

[peterv]

I'm going to assume that your post paints a complete picture of the relationship's problems.

Lady's opinion:

You're being a needy *****. As a needy *****, I do believe I know one when I see one.

If you like her, quit being a passive aggressive douche bag over one goddamn incident, and do that communication thing. I know that's a bit out of fashion these days, but it's what you do in a relationship.

If you don't like her, and you were just looking for an excuse to break up with her without being in the wrong, tough luck. Also, wait until you mature a bit before dating another girl.

Thanks, message received 


Here's the best i've heard from a 32 years old friend of mine:
           "Don't break up with her. Be very nice to her. Very very nice, become a total victim. She will leave you".   

[Col. Fishguts]

O.K. here's the story: I'm in a bar with my ex girlfriend and ...yadda yadda...
How do i break up with her politely?

Wait, wat?

Also:

(I'm so sorry)

Liar!

[iamzack]

Hooray, let's all watch ****ty chick flicks like they're guides to life. 

[peterv]

O.K. here's the story: I'm in a bar with my ex girlfriend and ...yadda yadda...
How do i break up with her politely?

Wait, wat?

An ex who doesn't know that she's an ex because i'm not answering her phonecalls.

Hooray, let's all watch ****ty chick flicks like they're guides to life. 

Well, the method of breaking a relationship is not so important i think.