But, Zeronet, since it would be frankly bizarre to claim that a fetus can actually feel or understand that situation, even if the fetus were me I wouldn't 'mind' so to speak - only because I wouldn't have a mind to 'mind' with.

I do agree that if someone doesn't want a baby, they should at least use protection when they're having sex. Remember that some abortions occur during marriage, so your noraml abstinence rule wouldn't hold here. Again, a prospective mother could give a baby up for adoption but that does still mean personal and professional sacrifices, plus the emotional burden of giving away a baby you have had for nine months, touched, seen, etc. I'm not saying that there are no emotional issues with aborting, but I believe they are lessened.
You can't defend a no-abortion stance realistically without being awful to the women who carry those babies. If they are raped, should they have to carry the rapist's baby, sacrificing their happiness and job (plus the possibility of emotional damage)? What if giving birth would be dangerous to the mother, and the baby might actually kill her? What if (as is the case with a friend of mine) one baby is ill and might infect the other, healthy one?
Briefly, here's a situation I know. A family friend was expecting twins but was told that one had Down's Syndrome after medical tests. She could choose to have both, but there was a possibility that the healthy baby might end up with Down's too due to sharing in the womb. In the event, they chose to abort one and save the other.
In these cases, I feel it's a matter of personal choice, but the legal right should be there. As with drugs, actually (ooh, controversy)...
All drugs should be legal. :devilidea